Post # 16
I don’t think my husband would ask me, and while I’m completely heterosexual, if it would fulfill a fantasy of his, I would do it. We’ve been together 7 years, there has got to be a bit of sexual give and take!
Post # 17
Hmm, how to answer this. Purely for the sake of turning my husband on? No, I don’t think so, because I wouldn’t want to make out with a chick I wasn’t attracted to. If his being turned on was the by-product of me turning myself on by making out with a girl I was attracted to, well, yeah. I am a bisexual woman though, and am still physically and sexually attracted to women, despite being married to a man. I’ve actually been with more women than men, so it was just chance that the PERSON I fell in love with was of an opposite gender.
I really don’t like kissing chicks who don’t actually like kissing chicks though, feels awkward and fake – so I likely wouldn’t make out with a chick who wasn’t a lesbian or bisexual. I want someone who actually is enjoying it too, ya know?
ETA: I voted “depends” btw.
Post # 18
I have kissed two women in my life but never to please a man.
My husband would never ask me to kiss another woman in front of him because he is the jealous type.
Post # 19
SilaC: Agreed. I’ll make out with a woman because I’m attracted to her. My SO can watch if he pleases but it’s not at his request.
Post # 20
I would never do something just to turn on a guy. If I was into it and he wanted to watch great, but I would never do smth I was uncomfortable with to please a man and no one else should eitheir. That being said I’m not uncomfortable kissing girls so I would have no problem going for it if it was smth I wanTed to do. My friends and I used to make out all of the time, and while those wild nights out have long sailed, my gf’s and I still are pretty open with each other. We don’t full on make out anymore but we still kiss and jiggle each other’s boobs all the time, ESP after a night of drinking. We are all straight and in relationships, it’s kinda just turned into this way we are affectionate with each other. we actually always jokingly say to new boyfriends that each other’s boobs are ours and they only get second right gropping approval if we approve of them. I’m sure some of them were turned on/weirded out at first but now they are all used to it and know it’s completely platonic.
Post # 21
sweetis: I’m bisexual, so for us, that would be cheating – no way!
Post # 22
theres ALOT of women on here that think it is demeaning………
I bloody think so too! It would piss me off actually if he asked..but to be honest i did do that about 5 years ago but that was cuz i wanted to myself, not cause anyone asked. As soon as he saw it he flat out told me if he sees me kissing anyone else male or female that it wld be over.
and i totally agree!