- This Time Round
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
There is that OTHER category of porn… Interactive porn. Where the Watcher / User, gets to watch sexual activity (porn) in real time, and make comments & REQUESTS from the person on display… the interactive part.
This type of porn in my mind, falls into a whole other category from static porn, because it crosses the line into the place where the User / Watcher is now having a one-on-one relationship with a person… a person in real time = a real person.
And that for me at least, crosses the barriers and sits in the land of “emotional cheating / cheating”… because if he isn’t getting something from me in OUR RELATIONSHIP then he is getting it elsewhere.
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I’d also like to comment on what
Sexting and being in a relationship is ALWAYS Cheating in my mind.
Sexting and age, there can also be a fine line on whether that is Illegal Porn or not.
First, if a guy is 18 and the girl is 16… and they know / date each other. (But then each jurisdiction… State / Province / Country has their own legalities when it comes to consensual sexual relationships). If the ages of the participants were all within those parameters, and there was a “relationship”… not an element of bullying or exploitation… then that might squeak by for me (If he was 18 and she was 14… then NO) etc
Second, if the guy is sexting now with someone he knows, be she a co-worker, friend, acquaintance, stripper, hooker, porn star… whatever… then NO that isn’t ok with me either. Because like the first example I gave at the top of this post, that would be in my mind “emotional cheating / cheating”
Hope this helps