(Closed) Would you marry a guy you've never slept with?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Would you marry someone that you haven't slept with in bed?
    No, I want to know what I'm marrying. : (141 votes)
    36 %
    Yes, meaningful relationships are based on factors other than sex. : (99 votes)
    25 %
    No, sexual experience is important for fulfilling married life. : (131 votes)
    34 %
    Yes, it's more meaningful when the relationship is pure. : (20 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 78
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    2203 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Yes, I would, mainly because practice makes perfect.  I do think that it’ll take a few months/years for you to really “get it down”, but that’s what being in a marriage is all about.  personally, my SO and i have had sex, but it wouldn’t have bothered me if we didn’t.  he was practically a virgin when we started dating (he had only had sex once), so it took some work and practice but is great now.

     

    Post # 79
    Member
    646 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    of course it’s a personal preference and i won’t judge anyone who waited, but me and SO don’t regret we didn’t.

    Post # 80
    Member
    208 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I would prefer to get that part going before I agree to marry someone (you never know, some people have kinks that are SO not for me), but if it was important to him to wait, I would certainly do that.  I even think that would be pretty romantic (if difficult, lol).

    Post # 81
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    628 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Temecula, California

    Sorry I wouldn’t. To me it’s way to connect with your SO, and if you can’t connect with him I don’t see how fullfilling that marriage can be IMO. I’m sure it can be fullfilling in other ways though.

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