(Closed) Would you marry a guy you've never slept with?

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Would you marry someone that you haven't slept with in bed?

    No, I want to know what I'm marrying.

    Yes, meaningful relationships are based on factors other than sex.

    No, sexual experience is important for fulfilling married life.

    Yes, it's more meaningful when the relationship is pure.

  • Post # 78
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    2203 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Yes, I would, mainly because practice makes perfect.  I do think that it’ll take a few months/years for you to really “get it down”, but that’s what being in a marriage is all about.  personally, my SO and i have had sex, but it wouldn’t have bothered me if we didn’t.  he was practically a virgin when we started dating (he had only had sex once), so it took some work and practice but is great now.

     

    Post # 79
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    646 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    of course it’s a personal preference and i won’t judge anyone who waited, but me and SO don’t regret we didn’t.

    Post # 80
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    208 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I would prefer to get that part going before I agree to marry someone (you never know, some people have kinks that are SO not for me), but if it was important to him to wait, I would certainly do that.  I even think that would be pretty romantic (if difficult, lol).

    Post # 81
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Temecula, California

    Sorry I wouldn’t. To me it’s way to connect with your SO, and if you can’t connect with him I don’t see how fullfilling that marriage can be IMO. I’m sure it can be fullfilling in other ways though.

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