(Closed) Would You Marry a Man Who Left His Wife and 2 Kids for You?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would You Marry a Man Who Left His Wife and 2 Kids for You?
    Yes : (10 votes)
    4 %
    No : (194 votes)
    79 %
    Maybe.... : (41 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3521 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Hell, no. Aside from how sad it is that families were destroyed, there’s another thing to consider: If he’ll do it FOR you, he’ll do it TO you.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1290 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    If I was either of them I would not trust the other as far as I could throw them. I’ve never understood that mentality!!!

    Post # 7
    Member
    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    No. Sounds like they deserve each other.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2947 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @Mrs Grape: Exactly. My ex-stepdad left his wife and son for my mom, and when she passed away, he abandoned me for a new family.

    Post # 9
    Member
    14569 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Back it up, I wouldnt have even bothered messing around with a married man who had two young children to start with!

    Post # 10
    Member
    7311 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    @Mrs Grape: Agreed.

    Post # 11
    Member
    5295 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    @Mrs Grape: exactly what I was going to say!

    If he’ll do it for you, he’ll do it to you. I feel so bad for those kids (and obviously the wife too)

    Post # 12
    Member
    2114 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Hell to the No

    Post # 14
    Member
    1109 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    That’s gonna be a marriage of two people with loose family values and questionable morals. Neither of them see anything wrong with sex outside of a marriage?? I wouldn’t marry him, but I also would have never flirted with him, gotten his number, slept with him etc…

    Post # 15
    Member
    3367 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    To be fair, my dad left his marriage of almost 3 decades for another woman and they went on to stay loyally married until his death, and she remains devoted to him…

    …but that doesn’t sound like the situation your Future Sister-In-Law is involved in.  She sounds self-centered from what you’ve written.  I wouldn’t be surprised if this guy left his family for her and she leaves him for someone else.

     

    Post # 16
    Member
    5788 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Well, I wouldn’t be sleeping with a married guy to begin with but I voted maybe. Who knows, maybe they’ll be married for 50 yrs. I doubt it, but its still a possibility.

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