Post # 1
Sorry, first off, not sure where this even goes under categories…
Second off, this is a vent about my Future Sister-In-Law….
So long story short. About 6 years she was a waiting bee who’s loving boyfriend of 7 years had an amazing ring and was waiting for the perfect time to propose. She knew about this dream ring and his dream proposal that he was trying to plan…but all the while she was whoring it around (excuse the language) with a married man for OVER A YEAR. Not sure what happened, or who broke it off with who, but she never got engaged with her boyfriend and they broke up. The married man divorced his wife and 2 kids who were at most 3 and 5 years old. He is now living with my Future Sister-In-Law and they are planning on marrying next year.
His family basically has disowned him, cut him off, refuse to see/talk to him if he marries her. He works for his father, and basically lives off his trust fund as it is since 90% of his paycheck goes to alimony and child support (the kids go to a very expensive private school). Future Sister-In-Law s not welcomed within a 5 mile radius of his parents’ house. Future Sister-In-Law loves to brag about what a close knit family she comes from and how family always comes first….I always just stare blankly at her. She not only destroyed one family, she destroyed TWO.
I find this situation wrong on so many levels, but it really makes me wonder why she would ever want to marry someone who left his wife and 2 kids for someone else….I mean neither of them scream loyal/faithful SO, but to marry someone who clearly does not value the sanctity of marriage or family?!
Thanks for listening…this was my Thanksgiving weekend…listening to Future Sister-In-Law boo hoo-ing about how unfair his family is being.
Post # 3
Hell, no. Aside from how sad it is that families were destroyed, there’s another thing to consider: If he’ll do it FOR you, he’ll do it TO you.
Post # 6
If I was either of them I would not trust the other as far as I could throw them. I’ve never understood that mentality!!!
Post # 7
No. Sounds like they deserve each other.
Post # 8
@Mrs Grape: Exactly. My ex-stepdad left his wife and son for my mom, and when she passed away, he abandoned me for a new family.
Post # 9
Back it up, I wouldnt have even bothered messing around with a married man who had two young children to start with!
Post # 11
@Mrs Grape: exactly what I was going to say!
If he’ll do it for you, he’ll do it to you. I feel so bad for those kids (and obviously the wife too)
Post # 13
@Mrs Grape: My thoughts EXACTLY!!!
@pinkshoes: yes, yes, let’s not even go there!!
Post # 14
That’s gonna be a marriage of two people with loose family values and questionable morals. Neither of them see anything wrong with sex outside of a marriage?? I wouldn’t marry him, but I also would have never flirted with him, gotten his number, slept with him etc…
Post # 15
To be fair, my dad left his marriage of almost 3 decades for another woman and they went on to stay loyally married until his death, and she remains devoted to him…
…but that doesn’t sound like the situation your Future Sister-In-Law is involved in. She sounds self-centered from what you’ve written. I wouldn’t be surprised if this guy left his family for her and she leaves him for someone else.
Post # 16
Well, I wouldn’t be sleeping with a married guy to begin with but I voted maybe. Who knows, maybe they’ll be married for 50 yrs. I doubt it, but its still a possibility.