(Closed) Would you marry someone who cheated on you?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Helper bee

Nope! I couldn’t live with not trusting him prior to being married. 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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holamarcia:  Nope. How you meet him is how you lose him. 

Post # 5
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Worker bee

I don’t think I could find it in myself to do so. Divorced can be expensive! 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

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holamarcia:  I know someone who cheated on a guy, and she married the guy she cheated with. I don’t know if that’s much better. Marrying someone you know is a cheater, what’s stopping them from doing the same to you?

Post # 7
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Helper bee

No, I wouldn’t. Part of being married is exclusivity with the spouse. If he can’t be trusted before being married, the marriage itself isn’t going to change anything.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

 This is hypothetical. Untill you’ve walked a mile in someone else’s shoes you just don’t know.

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Bumble bee

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holamarcia:  Nope, never. Can’t marry someone I don’t trust or have respect for anymore. You would always be looking over your shoulder and wondering whether it’ll happen again. Plus I would think that he doesn’t love and respect me, what’s the point of marrying him?

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Every situation is different. If say he cheated a month in when the relationship was rocky and barely official and had begged for forgiveness that might be different than if he cheated a year in when you were established and you thought everything was going well. 

I could do it, if the situation were right. I’ve always believed in second chances. 

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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

It all depends on the circumstances. Is this a serial cheater? Then hell no. Did he cheat recently? Again no. But is this a situation where we’very been together for like 5 years and he cheated in the very beginning and we found a way to move past it and have had 4 lovely years since? Then probably yes.

It’s so easier to say how you’d react in a situation you’ve never been in before. 

Post # 12
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Honey bee

Nope. 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

This feels so judgemental. We don’t know her reasons or their relationship. We can just hope she made the best decision.

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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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holamarcia:  No.

Post # 15
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Helper bee

While everyone and their opinions differ, I personally would not. 

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