Post # 1
Just want some advice. Say someone used to know this girl from his childhood. Not close but they knew each other. Eventhough he said she wasnt his type they eventually hit off and were with each other for 4+ years and got to the point of getting engaged. Then she cheated on him and they broke up. She found someone soon afterwards. Then after like another 4 years they are backtogether again.
Please share your stories and give give me advise .
Post # 5
MissTiramissu: No. That person may have matured since then, but they don’t get two stabs at my heart.
Post # 6
No. Just no. Have some self respect.
Post # 9
No. I do not subscribe to the “Once a cheater always a cheater” mentality, but I would not be able to forgive someone that cheated on me.
Post # 10
Nope. Like Hyperventilate: said, I can buy that someone who once cheated has matured and wouldn’t do it again, but once that trust is broken with me that’s something that you can’t really get back.
Post # 11
If she wasn’t his type than why would he waste his and her time the first (and now the second time)? That doesn’t make sense.
But to answer your question, I wouldn’t reenter into a relationship with an ex who cheated on me but I would wish them the best and keep it moving. (I wouldn’t get back with an ex period though because once I’m done with a person I’m done. All feelings, attractions, etc are dead.)
Post # 12
MissTiramissu: How old were they when they started dating, the cheating happened and now?
Did they solve the underlying problem that led her to cheat? Is he able to 100% forgive and trust her?
Post # 13
MissTiramissu: me when i was younger yeah. I had an ex who was in the military who had a Girlfriend, Fiance, and wife mind you I was the Girlfriend who he was with before he went to Korea. HIS fI was the girl he met in Korea, and his wife was the girl he met in colorado which is where he was sent after Korea. I got back with him after his wife cheated on him with another woman only to find out he was talking to another girl telling her the same BS lines he was telling me. Now that i am older hell no i wouldn’t. I just don’t have time for that. I know there is someone out there. They may not have the same qualities as that person who cheated on you but they have some sort of quality that makes them even better than the jerk who cheated.
Post # 14
nope. An ex cheated on me, I tried to move past it and get back together but then realized he was just using me until someone else would come along.
Post # 15
No. There are literallu billions of people in the world who haven’t cheated on me. I’d pick one of those