(Closed) Would you re-enter a relationship with someone who cheated on you before.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
3113 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

Hell no.

Post # 3
756 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015


Post # 4
1527 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

DNR: Do Not Resuscitate.

Post # 5
47252 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

MissTiramissu:  No. That person may have matured since then, but they don’t get two stabs at my heart.

Post # 6
1167 posts
Bumble bee

No. Just no. Have some self respect.

Post # 7
1770 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014


Post # 8
2766 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013


Post # 9
9094 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

No. I do not subscribe to the “Once a cheater always a cheater” mentality, but I would not be able to forgive someone that cheated on me.

Post # 10
2509 posts
Sugar bee

Nope. Like Hyperventilate:  said, I can buy that someone who once cheated has matured and wouldn’t do it again, but once that trust is broken with me that’s something that you can’t really get back.

Post # 11
29 posts

If she wasn’t his type than why would he waste his and her time the first (and now the second time)? That doesn’t make sense.

But to answer your question, I wouldn’t reenter into a relationship with an ex who cheated on me but I would wish them the best and keep it moving. (I wouldn’t get back with an ex period though because once I’m done with a person I’m done. All feelings, attractions, etc are dead.)

Post # 12
5891 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

MissTiramissu:  How old were they when they started dating, the cheating happened and now?

Did they solve the underlying problem that led her to cheat? Is he able to 100% forgive and trust her?

Post # 13
3586 posts
Sugar bee

MissTiramissu:  me when i was younger yeah. I had an ex who was in the military who had a Girlfriend, Fiance, and wife mind you I was the Girlfriend who he was with before he went to Korea. HIS fI was the girl he met in Korea, and his wife was the girl he met in colorado which is where he was sent after Korea. I got back with him after his wife cheated on him with another woman only to find out he was talking to another girl telling her the same BS lines he was telling me. Now that i am older hell no i wouldn’t.  I just don’t have time for that. I know there is someone out there. They may not have the same qualities as that person who cheated on you but they have some sort of quality that makes them even better than the jerk who cheated. 

Post # 14
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

nope. An ex cheated on me, I tried to move past it and get back together but then realized he was just using me until someone else would come along. 

Post # 15
3169 posts
Sugar bee

No. There are literallu billions of people in the world who haven’t cheated on me. I’d pick one of those 

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