(Closed) Would you respond to this RSVP?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 32
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016 - Villa in Florence, Italy

I am pretty sure she is joking : ) But you could ask a mutual friend/family member to double check. 

Post # 33
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I would’ve thought she meant to be funny but, she meant to be snarky? Jeez.. Some friend..

Is she bitter she didn’t get a +1 to invite a stranger?

Post # 34
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

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spiffanee:  I would say something. Just call her up and politely tell her that the venue space is limited, and your budget is as well, so you are not able to offer her a plus one. 

Post # 35
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

 

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spiffanee:  thats shitty, weddings bring out the worst in some people. 

Post # 36
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Did you give her a plus one? If not, that’s a very easy remedy. Just reiterate that the guest count is concrete, and she was given a single slot. You could also add that plus one’s were extended to couples you or your fiance knew prior to the wedding. But the last part isn’t even necessary if she wasn’t given a plus one in the first place. I would go one further than just saying you weren’t anticipating that she was bringing a guest. I would make sure that she knows she wasn’t (and isn’t) given a plus one. She can keep her snark and herself at home. Weddings aren’t a free for all.

Post # 37
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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spiffanee:   Thanks for the update – “snarky”??   Oh, dear.  She is no Miss Manners, that’s for sure.  

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