Would you send an invitation to someone at their work address?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
3471 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

Do the leg work, it’s a personal invite, not a professional one.  It should go to his home. 

Post # 3
719 posts
Busy bee

Usually invitations are sent to a person’s home address, however in this specific case given that your relationship to this person is through the University and this person isn’t a peer or family member, I think it is ok. 

Post # 4
5156 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

SimTeam:  I would send him an email asking for his home address. You can send out the rest of the invitations in the meantime and just wait until he responds to send his. No big deal. 

Post # 5
317 posts
Helper bee

weatherbug:  Yeah, this. I think it would be awkward for him to receive a wedding invitation at work. It’s perfectly reasonable to email him at work or through linkedin to get the home address. 

Post # 6
9103 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I wouldn’t. Contact him and ask for his home address.

Post # 7
1848 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’d call him, ask him for his address, letter the envelope really quickly, and send it to his home address.

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