(Closed) Would you still marry this guy?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 182
63 posts
Worker bee

I think it all completely depends on his reaction when you bring it up and ask him about why he didn’t call/text to check on you. Maye he didn’t realise the seriousness of a nut allergy and that you could have potentially died? 


I mean, he would have or be almost psycho to think someone could be in real danger and not do anything about it or check. I think he probably just realise anything too serious was going on and thought you’d just go to sleep and if would sort itself out.


i wouldn’t end a relationship over it but I would bring it up with him.

Post # 183
263 posts
Helper bee

I had a similar situation – actually two incidents in which I ended up needing emergency surgery and my SO was “too sick” (he had a minor cold) to take me to the hospital. I ended up taking a taxi both times while screaming/crying the whole way there because I was in so much pain. One of the guys literally dumped me at the emergency entrance he was so scared. Should’ve heeded the warning and dumped my SO. Just saying. Is he going to be there for you ever if he’s not there when you need him most?

Post # 184
263 posts
Helper bee

My current Fiance on the other hand, rushed home when I cut my finger while cooking even though it had stopped bleeding just to make sure I was ok… you can have both kinds of men, depends on what you’re looking for

Post # 185
118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Based on several of your posts (and replies) it sort of seems that you are looking for reasons NOT to marry him. If you are questioning whether or not to marry him over this (although a conversation is certinly in order) then, my opinion, just cancel the engagment and save yourself the trouble of divorce.

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