(Closed) Would you tell his wife?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you email the wife?

    Heck Yes

    No. That's just mean. She'll figure it out.

  • Post # 2
    7564 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    How exactly do you know he is only interested in sex? unless he explicitly said that’s what he is after,  you shouldn’t go to his wife, because you might actually be wrong.,

    Post # 3
    54 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2017

    Yes you need to tell her. I’d be devastated but at the same time thankful for someone telling me. She deserves better than staying with a guy like him. 

    Post # 4
    1887 posts
    Buzzing bee

    If she wants to know, she probably wouldn’t want to know from you. Is there a mutual friend who you could tell instead?

    Post # 5
    11376 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2015

    All you can do is give her the info. Sometimes it’s just planting a seed. I don’t see it as mean to give her the facts. I wouldn’t elaborate or fill in the blanks because you can’t prove what he wants now, unless there’s more to the texts. 

    Post # 6
    2111 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Tell her.

    I can’t believe I am saying that because you will be destroying her life but she deserces to know who she has married.

    Hopefully they don’t have a family yet.

    Post # 8
    742 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Best case scenario: she believes you. Most likely scenario:  you’re some crazy lady who just wants her husband’s D and she goes off on you.

    Post # 9
    7638 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

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    sunfl0wergirl:  Yeah but OP and the wife don’t know each other, so who cares if she flips out at her?

    Just send the photos / messages back to her and let her deal with it. I would be devastated if I was her, but I would still want to know.

    Post # 10
    2662 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

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    daisyb214:  Good heavens just tell the poor woman! No skin off your if she decides to stay with him but at least you’ll have presented the facts.

    Post # 11
    1228 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I would tell her.

    I replied on that other post that I would tell my friend that I saw her cheating fiance in Vegas, too. But, thinking on it, I wonder if this is safe advice to give. Like what if the guy ends up getting dumped, and comes after you in revenge? He knows your name and where you live, right?

    I think you should at least try to tell his wife anonymously. Even if she doesn’t leave him on the basis of one anonymous email, you’ve planted a seed in her head. Now she’ll be suspicious and probably start snooping. Then maybe she’ll find her own evidence.

    Post # 12
    15278 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Go through with it then send her the video?  Then she’ll have to believe he would.   Kidding, just send her whatyou have now and let her decode what she wants to do with the info.   Most likely she won’t believe it anyways though. 

    Post # 13
    9209 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

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    daisyb214:  You know nothing about their marriage. For all you know they are in open relationship. Stay out of it and block this guy. 


    Post # 14
    593 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 1993

    No I would not tell her. i would however block him from calling me again. 

    Post # 15
    64 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

      Yes, she needs to know she married a class-A jerk!

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