Would you tell or keep quiet?

posted 2 weeks ago in Beehive
Post # 2
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510 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

IMO, stay out of it.  It’s not your business what they do or do not do.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

Argh. What would you want if you were in the wronged SO’s shoes?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

I wouldn’t unless it was my friend… not the gf of my fiancé’s friend. 

Even if you’re friendly. But dang that sucks. I’d be worried about them getting a disease and I wouldn’t want to marry a cheater. 

Actually… I take it back. You should tell. I wouldn’t want to marry a guy that cheated and lied. She can still get out. 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

I would absolutely tell. I’m not friends with liars, I don’t lie for other people, I don’t lie TO other people. These shitty people are making you lie and that’s not cool. Their partners deserve to know.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

If it were my boyfriend in this situation, I would want to know. I’d say something. Especially since one of the guys apparently already publicly admitted to it. I would feel like an absolute fool if I was the girlfriend and everyone knew, except me.

Post # 10
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Busy bee

chocco :  can you tell anonymously without being implicated/involved? If so that’s what I would do. I know entire groups of guys that go out of town and cheat on their spouses so I’d want to know

Post # 13
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153 posts
Blushing bee

Either you or your fiance should tell these two that you both will if they don’t tell their partners. Also, I would stop being friends with such people.

Post # 14
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765 posts
Busy bee

chocco :  so I was on vacation and we met a huge group of guys also on vacation and some of my friends hooked up with some of these guys and as we were hanging out we learned that they basically cheat on every vacation they go on. I just feel like it probably wasn’t an isolated incident for these guys ya know? I mean 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

DO NOT TELL their relationship is non of your business and you should keep out of it. Nothing good will come from this.

the friends have done the right thing, encouraging him to come clean but really this is not your circus.

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