Would you tell or keep quiet?

posted 2 weeks ago in Beehive
Post # 181
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Blushing bee

chocco :  Would it not be simpler to email the woman who you know only as an acquaintance?

Post # 183
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

Wow, impressed that you’re set on telling both in person. Loads of respect for both you and your Fi! Good luck! 

Post # 184
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Helper bee

leebee333 :  +1. It takes guts and courage to be willing to be the whistleblower in such situations. 

Post # 185
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Sugar Beekeeper

chocco :  It’s not pleasant,  but you are doing the right thing. Good luck. 

Post # 186
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Worker bee

chocco :  I’m glad you are telling both of the women, and telling them in person. Thank you.

Post # 187
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

chocco :  I just have to say that I’m so thankful that people like you and your Fiance exist. We’ve seen all kinds of things on the Bee, and most of us have seen the same in our personal lives, and most people aren’t willing to do the right thing when it’s awkward or uneasy. I applaud your willingness to do the right thing for these women. I would hope my own friends would do the same for me.  

Post # 188
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Blushing bee

Agree and her fiance deserves credit too because he could end up losing friends but he is supporting OP in doing what is right. 

knotyet :  

Post # 189
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Bumble bee

Don’t add to their drama.  

Post # 190
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Blushing bee

bywater :  Doing the right thing by telling these women what their partners have been up to is not “adding to drama”.

Post # 191
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Worker bee

Will your FH accompany you to meet these women? He saw what happened first hand and it would help it he went?

Post # 192
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Bumble bee

chiara :  you’re right – it isn’t adding to it, it’s creating it.  

Post # 194
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2020 - City, State

bywater :  ummm not really… they shouldn’t have cheated and then told a bunch of people. what a silly response.

Post # 195
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Worker bee

chocco :  Some people care only about themselves and about keeping their lives easy and avoiding ‘drama’. You are absolutely right to want to look out for these women and it’s great that you are telling them in person. Agree with the post above that the drama was ‘created’ when these assholes decided to cheat.

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