(Closed) Would you tell someone's SO that they did this?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

mrsc6815:  C is your husband’s sister? In this case, no. Definitely not. I assume your husband also witnessed it and he should handle his family. 

Post # 3
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Honey bee

Nope 

Post # 4
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Newbee

Not your place, especially since that was the first time you met C. If anything, bring it up with your husband and he can speak to his sister about it if he feels the need. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

You just met C and haven’t met her boyfriend. No, I would not go out of my way to say anything. If I was asked about it, then I would be honest. You really don’t know her or what her relationship is like with her boyfriend. I would be cautious about going out drinking with her again. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Not your circus, not your monkeys.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

mrsc6815:  you just met this lady for the first time and you want to tattle on her to her boyfriend…about something that you only vaguely remember/witnessed (you yourself were drunk and your description of events does not have a lot of detail)? Nope nope nope. This is so far out of your lane, I can’t even…

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

mrsc6815:  Which do you think is likely to turn out better for everyone involved:

  1. You somehow find out how to contact the boyfriend of this woman you only just met, and reach out to tell him you’re his girlfriend’s brother’s wife, and that you saw her dancing with your husband’s best friend who may or may not have kissed her head or shoulder or something at some point during the night.
  2. You don’t do that stuff in #1.
Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

Nope. ^^What they said.

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Do not pass go, girl. This is a disaster waiting to happen. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee

Side-eye only. 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

mrsc6815:  It’s not your place to say anything. Keep your eyes on your own paper. 

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 10 months ago by  swonderful.
Post # 14
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Helper bee

No not at all, this has nothing to do with you, and you should behave exactly as you did before the evening out with all parties involved.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

The heart wants what the heart wants, maybe meeting that guy put doubts into her head about where her life/relationship is headed. I mean C has been with her bf for 8 years and they have a 6yr old son but they’re not married- maybe their relationship isn’t as perfect as you were lead to believe and they’re not married yet for a reason. Maybe she doesn’t really love him but she’s determined to stay with him for the kid. Or maybe they have an open relationship, Vegas is pretty wild so maybe they’ve decided to have open boundaries. 

Your Darling Husband saw how his sister was acting and didn’t have anything to say about it? then let it go.

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