(Closed) Would you tell the truth?

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Would you admit the truth about a past lover?

    I would tell my SO upfront

    I would wait until a good time to tell my SO (Please explain when that would be).

    I would never tell my SO

    Other

  • Post # 32
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @questionforyou:  Just THINK:

    T = Thoughtful?

    H = Helpful?

    I = Inspiring?

    N = Necessary?

    K = Kind?

    If telling him is not any of these things (which I don’t think it is!), then it’s just not worth it.

    Post # 34
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

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    @questionforyou:  i’d delete this thread if i were you, too much identifying information now…

    Post # 37
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @questionforyou:  I’m just curious about who you slept with?  Oh and I’d tell my DH the truth even if it would hurt him.

    Honesty is the best policy.  DH has a colorful past and I’ve known several people he has slept with.  I’ve had to interact with these people or I have some odd past connection to them.  It’s best you just come clean.  No biggie…we all have a past.

    Post # 40
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

     

     

     

    Post # 41
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

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    @CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  She means Ben Affleck is married now.  

     

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    @atlbride2013:  However he has not been married for long.  So it is possible that the OP slept with him say 10 years ago, etc…

    Post # 42
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

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    @atlbride2013:  Ben Affleck courted JLo when she was with her ex Cris Judd. Openly. I wouldn’t put it past him.

     

    I know for a fact it isn’t George Clooney.

     

    I’m putting my money on  Shawn Christensen because he is also in a band and seems most likely. 

     

     

     

    Post # 43
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013
    Post # 44
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

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    @questionforyou:  Tell him, don’t tell him… really it is past history and not like you were married to the person. 

    I don’t see the big deal.

    Post # 45
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

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    @atlbride2013:  Shawn Christensen is also a producer. Although he did not produce the film he won for (he directed it), he is mostly unknown and it would make sense in my eyes. 

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