- 9 years ago
lol I get the philosophy you are trying to follow but I was going to maintain that i doubt you’d end you marriage on an accidental drunken kiss. You then pointed out that Mormans don’t drink…so maybe you are off the hook. I think sober kissing would be worse.
I don’t like people trying to use the excuse of being drunk for sleeping with someone. If you do things that out of control you shouldn’t drink…but I can imagine buzzed people having fun and the other person gets the wrong idea and plants a kiss and they go along for a second the realize WTF? I’m not saying I would encourage that or encourage that as an excuse but I hardly think it is worth ending a marriage over (for a one time offense).
I understand the point you are getting across because if people get it in their heads that it is still cheating, they can know they should feel guilty about it and not to think “Hey it is just minor”. I do believe if push came to shove, not only would you be angrier, you would not view them on the same level. lol One is like the atom bomb…lol
It’s cool. I can understand labling all as cheating. I agree it is cheating. Even having an emotional relationship “intimacy” with fantasy is cheating in my book but the reason i would separate them into levels is because i would likely be able to forgive and heal with the “emotional cheating” and even the “drunken kiss” but the atomic bomb…nah…probably done. I would even clean their record with the light stuff (so long as it was corrected). There is no way to undo or erase an atomic bomb from a record. lol