(Closed) Would you tell?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I tell him?
    yes : (68 votes)
    82 %
    no : (13 votes)
    16 %
    other(explain) : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I would probably tell the aunt/someone else so the information gets to him. Or just flat out tell him if you’re close with your cousin.

    Post # 4
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    117 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    i would say something… if you don’t then your only setting him up to pay for a wedding and a divorce, because he will eventually find out one day, and when he does what is going to happen. Will he walk into her and someone else doing something in his house, if they have kids, (now or in the future) all he will do is wonder if they’re his, and if they aren’t he might not give the child all the love and care that it deserves, and thats not the kids fault.

    you need to say something and make sure he leaves her, so he can start his journey to find the girl that will be there for him and never want to do anything to hurt him.

    your only helping him in the long run, and if you don’t tell him and they do eventually get devorced, you will feel bad knowning that if you had just said something before they had gotten married you could have saved your cousin from all the hearted will will go through.

    My fiance said that if it were him he would be upset at first, but would be very happy with you that you told him, and he would be thankful to you for looking out for him.

    Post # 5
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    2286 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    It depends on if your close to the cousin, and how you think he’d react to the information. If I were you I’d find a way to, it doesn’t seem like she deserves your cousin.

    Post # 6
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    1417 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I would say something. I would want someone to tell me!

    Post # 7
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    3569 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I would give the facts and tell him to ask her about it.

    Post # 8
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    3771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    Gross!  I would tell him, especially if you’re close to your cousin, but be sure you have your facts straight and any possible proof.  People generally react to this information with disbelief or offense.

    Post # 9
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    13101 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’d probably say something, especially if you are close to your cousin.  You saw it with your own eyes so it isn’t just a rumor or anything.

    Post # 10
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    1014 posts
    Bumble bee

    Say something. You have hard evidence that she is a bit of a tramp.  So fess up the information. 

    Post # 11
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    1072 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Say something!

    Post # 12
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    1069 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Say something most def. I mean like other people have said on this thread better he know now then after he has paid for a wedding and divorce soon after. As hard as it is your saving him alot of heart ache. 

    Post # 13
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    1765 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I would say something!

    Post # 14
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    3453 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I would probably say something.

    Post # 15
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    108 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    If it were one of my cousins (which I’m VERY close to) I would have said something then and there, like an adult no big scene…I would have called my cousin in to witness the whole thing. That’s just me, when it comes to fooling around some ppl don’t believe hear say, they have to see it for themselves. Now that it’s already been a couple days I would be a little more hesitant simply because now it’s your word against hers…you could invite them both over  and talk to them together…again only if ya’ll are close. If not then let him see it for himself.

    Post # 16
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    1354 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I would say something, it’s family.  What a skank.

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