Post # 17
I feel like that type of thing is kind of like horoscopes – if you’re expecting a certain outcome you’re more likely to see it.
Example – if the relationship is “doomed” and it starts to sour then you’re more likely to end it since it’s “meant to be” but if it were said to be a lasting relationship you’d think you were just going thru a rough patch and that you’d get thru it.
Post # 18
AAAGGHHHH!!!!!!!! This is one of my most favorite books!!!!!!! And I’m just realizing I have no idea where it is, especially since now I want to re-read it. I don’t think I’d want to know. By The Way, aren’t the things in that book amazing? Like the story of the guy that was shot multiple times by the cops and the cops retelling of the seconds leading up to it… and the crazy thing is I’ve experienced this when I was in a bad car accident!!!! Incredible, and for those of you who haven’t read it… you must!
Post # 19
Nope, wouldn’t want to know. I feel like that’s something for us to figure out and not let a prediction taint our faith in our marriage.
Post # 20
I’m with the previous posters who’ve mentioned self-fulfilling prophecy. I wouldn’t want to know.