Post # 17

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Buzzing bee
Nope, I wouldn’t. If the custom were to just pick a fabulous dress in any color, I’d go for something floor-length in a seafoam green. I’ve always wanted to wear something floor-length and floaty but heavily beaded in that color.
Post # 18

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Bee Keeper
Haha! I think I’m one of the only people to say yes 🙂
White is my favorite color, I think it is GORGEOUS! And I think I look good in white because I have tan skin and dark hair.
Post # 19

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Newbee
I am wearing Maggie Sottero’s Vogue Royale in the antique gold. I am of Irish descent and am very fair. I never had any intention, ever, of wearing white. And honestly, the details in white dresses get lost because white is a flat color. Look into designer’s that have other color options.
Post # 20

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Newbee
Well I look awful in white too which is why I’m going for pillarbox red – red is a happy colour, and I want my wedding to feel like a party! I haven’t had a single negative response about this choice. Besides, the white wedding dress has only been a tradition since Queen Victoria wore a white dress and the style caught on – previously brides wore their best dress, whatever colour it was.
Post # 21

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Busy bee
I would definitely go for color, I think the white makes the dress decision even harder!
Post # 22

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Buzzing bee
I really didn’t want to wear the white dress, but I mentioned to my mom wearing a plum purple dress, and she flipped out. So I wore a white one.
If colors were the norm, I would have wanted a rich plum dress, or possible even a black one.
Post # 23

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Newbee
Thanks for the responses so far, ladies…it’s nice to know I’m not the only one out there!
@souliganprincess: They DO make wedding bibs! I’ve seen them online, and my cousin’s now-husband had his mom custom make for her to match her dress. It velcroed around her neck halter-style and was long enough to cover her lap, too. It was actually really pretty, she even beaded it just like her real dress…everyone who saw it didn’t even notice that it was a bib, they just saw a pretty dress.
Post # 24

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Helper bee
light peach all the way – it looks GREAT on my skin ;P I almost bought a dress with brown and blue flowers on it but Fiance disagreed 9_9 Men.
Post # 25

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Blushing bee
yeah im tanned and i like how i look in white/ivory, its actually a 1 of 4 of my favourite colours.. yellow/teal/white/green (in that order)
Post # 26

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Blushing bee
@MadameLady: lol funny, my first dress was gold/peachy, and the only reason i didnt like it was because i had a change of heart of the shape of dress i wanted to wear.. so i dont know maybe i wouldnt go with white maybe i would, i was definitly more drawn to white when i started trying on dresses again
Post # 27

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Bee Keeper
Nopety nope. If I could have worn blue and not been gasped at, I would of course have gone with the jewel tone. I hate white/pastels. They wash me out.
Post # 28

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Bumble bee
It’s hard to answer this question because if you really think about it, our thoughts and feelings about things are usually based on the “norms” that our society holds. Those norms define our decisions and influence our likes and dislikes. I like being traditional when it comes to weddings so of course I want a white/ivory dress. That being said, I look much better in other colors, so hypothetically speaking, if white/ivory wasn’t the norm then I don’t think I’d be wearing it because I like other colors (purple, pink, green, etc.) better.
Unfortunately white/ivory IS the norm and IS traditional so that sways my decision a lot. I say all the power to you if you want to wear another color, but it’s not for me.
Post # 29

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Newbee
I would like to wear a colored dress if it were accepted, but will I this way things are right now? Unfortunately, no. I’m not that outgoing, and my family would throw a fit if I didn’t wear some sort of white or ivory. It would be cool if the “norm” were different though, then i’d be all over an awesome colored dress 🙂
Post # 30

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Bumble bee
I’ve never chosen a white dress for any formal event I’ve attended, so I doubt I would think of wearing a white dress if that weren’t the norm for a wedding. With my pale skin, white isn’t the best of all colors for me. But I love my ivory dress and I am glad that there is the tradition of the bride wearing white, so I could have the fun of feeling like I was doing something special and different to mark that day as being unlike any other dress-up occasion. And it looked fantastic.
Post # 31

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Buzzing bee
If white weren’t the tradition, I probably would have chosen an emerald green dress a la Keira Knightley in Atonement, or maybe a more romantic pink/peach dress. 🙂