(Closed) Would your FI/SO/DH ever cheat on you?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would your FI/DH/SO ever cheat?

    Yes

    He already has

    No way

    Maybe

  • Post # 47
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    He definitely wouldn’t! He’s way too loyal and would never allow himself to be in that kind of situation. He doesn’t go out, doesn’t have female friends, finds things about most girls inattractive or annoying, etc. He seriously seems like the least likely person to ever cheat, just because he is so uninterested in other girls. If someone was going to cheat in our relationship it would be me, because he is incredibly anti-cheating (I would never cheat, just trying to demonstrate how against it he is aha).

    Post # 48
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    24 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @lolot  Lazy and faithful… That’s my Fiance in a nutshell!  Wink

     

    Post # 49
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    9578 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2015

    not if he wants to keep his balls.

    Post # 50
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I’m in the minority here, but my Fiance did cheat or what I classify as cheating, on me two almost three years ago. He was living at his parents and brought a girl home (I knew they were hanging out to an extent) well that’s where things get wishy washy,  and she ended up spending the night on the sofa, he slept in his room. I was enraged, I decided to kick him to the curb, and it lasted two months. Then one day he called me wanting to talk, so we did and I said I’d give him one more chance, that I don’t want to know what happened with the other girl, and that if you’re with me then you are only with me. He shapped up real quick and I haven’t had any problems since.

    I gave him the second chance because everyone makes mistakes. He isn’t the same person he was then that he is now. 

    Post # 51
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    108 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I agree that to say absolutely not is a little naive. Although I couldn’t imagine my husband cheating on me (he treats me like I’m the best thing this world has seen since sliced bread!), no one knows what will come 5, 10, or 20 years down the road. I’ve been cheated on before and there were signs – even though DH hasn’t given me any reason at all to think he would ever do anything like that to me, I won’t be so naive as to say that it could absolutely never happen.

    Post # 52
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    108 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

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    @MrsBuesleBee:  Haha well said!

    Post # 53
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    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I voted maybe, but let me put it this way. I’m not living in constant fear that my SO is going to cheat on me, and he has never given me a reason to believe that he will either. That being said, how can we ever be 100% certain that our SOs aren’t going to cheat on us? You really never know what’s going on in someone else’s mind at every second of the day. I’m sure everyone wants to answer “no way!” but then we would never see the “my SO cheated on me” posts. In the same respect, I don’t think anyone would vote “I would cheat on my SO” if that were an option, but it obviously happens. 

    Post # 54
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    2116 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Ninteenthchance

    i get jealous of other women but dont think my DH would ever cheat. im pretty territorial when it comes to most things. hes not even a flirty kind of guy. But ive had my BILs wife so i gues my SIL try to encourage my DH to drink (when her husband is there and shes not doing that to him) and i know we are all family but im like “B*tch please! get your own man to drink and quit trying to get my DH drunk. wtf” what can i say im the jealous type. but i myself would never cheat either, just an animal instinct i guess

    Post # 55
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Who knows?

    I know he values our marriage and doesn’t want a divorce, therefore his words and actions are consistent with living his vows. But, I don’t put moments of stupidity past anybody. Everyone is capable of cheating. Staying faithful is a choice. As far as I know he makes good choices 😉

    Post # 56
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Nah. Cheating takes effort. Husbutt is far too lazy to cheat on me.

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