Post # 1
You woke him up during the night to talk. My hubby goes to bed much earlier than I do. Last night when I went to bed I tapped him on the back and started chatting about Christmas related items we need to do and to get our house ready for kids to visit. This led to a serious conversation after which I fell promptly to sleep and he couldnt get back to sleep.
Today he asked me to post in “that internet thing you go on” and find out how other women’s husbands would react if awakened out of a sound sleep to chat. I told him I I woke him for sex that wouldn’t have annoyed him.
So ladies, what’s the verdict?
Post # 3
Unless its some emergency, I try not to wake him up.. I know it would get him really angry because I know he won’t be able to fall back to sleep. I usually see when it’s right time (good time) to talk about certain things.. I don’t start any negative talks in the mornig.. Who would want to start the morning in bad mood..
Post # 4
@Pamelor55: Oh, totally, unless it was like a medical emergency. And I’d probably be even more annoyed – I cherish my sleep!
Post # 5
My husband has told me to wake him up for absolutely anything. He knows I’m the type to bottle things up inside and not open up; so no matter what, he will always be there to listen… Whether its 9pm, 4am, or whenever. I’m very lucky.
Post # 6
I’d be pissed if someone woke me up just to chat. Unless he’s totally okay with being woken up, you should really wait until a time when you’re both already up.
Post # 7
I just asked my husband and he goes, “I’d be pretty livid if you woke me up just to chat about christmas.”
Basically, if the house isn’t on fire, we don’t disturb anyone’s sleep.
I know I’d be absolutely infuriated if he woke me up to talk about something that could wait til morning.
Post # 8
My Fiance would not be happy if I did that. I wouldn’t be happy about it either. We could talk about that in the morning.
Post # 9
I try not to wake my SO up for anything but sex or an emergency, its rude to wake someone up when they are sleeping, even your SO or Darling Husband just to chat.
Post # 10
Ya he’d probs be pretty irritated if I did that to him.
Post # 11
If it was just to chat, yeah he’d be annoyed (and so would I for that matter!) If it was important I know he would listen without complaining, but otherwise why not have the conversation in the morning when you get up?
Post # 12
@Pamelor55: No. My SO will sit up and talk to me about anything that’s bothering me. But if he sees it’s not life or death or really causing me emotional turmoil, there are no promises that he may not drift off to sleep while I’m talking. lol
Now, I’ve dated people who would DEFINITELY have a big problem with it. It just depends on the man.
Post # 13
I would never do that. It comes across as inconsiderate, or me putting my own needs above my partner’s. If I want to talk to someone and they are indisposed – on the phone, sleeping, driving and can’t answer the phone, etc. – then I just have to suck it up and wait since life doesn’t always give instant gratification.
Post # 14
Yes, he would be annoyed. And he would promptly tell me that talking about “mundane crap like that” could wait until the morning.
Post # 15
Unless it was some life philosophy discussion or I am having an anxiety attack, yes he would be annoyed. As would I.
Post # 16
so, i asked my dh if he would be upset and he said no, not really. he said that it’s not really something to get angry or upset over.
keep in mind, he seldom gets angry or upset.