(Closed) Wow…it's over :(

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
594 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

So sorry to hear that! Sending internet hugs your way! Try to keep busy and remember that you are better off where you are at now, even if it doesn’t feel that way. Always focus on the good!

Post # 3
80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Big Hug coming your way!!!  

Post # 4
928 posts
Busy bee

You’ll come through this better than ever. It’ll be ok. 

I dunno if you want to, but on the old Weddingbee, there was a way to request a username change. Maybe you could look into that and reinvent yourself.

Post # 5
425 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

So sorry.  Please take good care of yourself right now.  You need it!

Post # 6
3025 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Big virtual hugs! I’m sorry you’re going through this. Do take care of yourself and stay busy. 

I think it’s totally normal to be feeling the array of emotions you’re going through right now. It’s part of the process. IF you have any creative hobbies, now is a good time to really endulge in them. They can be amazing therapy!

Again, big hugs! 

Post # 7
67 posts
Worker bee

Soon2BeeFirstLadyJee:  Aw. I am so sorry. I know how it feels. It happened to me. But it will be ok! Just think that it is better it ended now instead of 20 years from now when children are involved and you have to get a nasty long expensive divorce. I know I don’t know you personally but I am willing to bet you are a strong brave woman and you will be ok. Just hang in there!

Post # 8
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Sending BIGGG Hugs your way! You will be fine…stay encouraged and keep your head up! I def agree with the point that it is better it has happened now instead of having children and many years invested although I know it is still hard. Be strong, go out with your girl and enjoy life XO

Post # 9
348 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Im so sorry you are going through this,the end of a relationship sure does suck.

First off take good care of yourself,shower even when you dont wanna,eat even if you dont feel hungry,paint your nails,do your hair pretty and give yourself a slick of lip gloss even if you dont usually wear it! The whole ‘look good feel good’ thing definitely helped me

Surround yourself with your friends,family and people that love you but also make time for you to ponder. while most people do whatever they can to not think about things,i found that by trying to block it all out made me think about even more!So i literally set myself time periods where i was ‘allowed’ to think,process,grieve etc. If my mind wondered during the day i would check the time and tell myself ‘not yet girl’!

You are on a brand new path now,your new journey on your next chapter of life.A new career,new challenges,a brand new and even more fabulous you!

Good luck hunny,massive internet hugs to you!


Post # 10
8442 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Wishing you all the best, so sorry you’re going through this.  *HUGS*

Post # 11
81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Sending multiple hugs your way. I don’t know what it is like to call off an engagement but the first advice i can give you is if you believe in God (no matter what religion you are), this is the time to spiritually connect. There is no solace elsewhere. I cannot tell you how much my faith has helped me go through the toughest times. It has been a constant source of happiness and joy for me. 

Secondly, it is going to be hard and very hard not to take him back. The only way you can truly move on is to occupy your time with a lot of other activities. I found that zumba makes me happy and tired at the same time. 

Please if you need any support at all, feel free to reach out here. I am sure there will always be people to make you feel comforted. 


Post # 12
330 posts
Helper bee

*hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug* *hug*. So sorry!!

Post # 13
1463 posts
Bumble bee

((HUGS))   I am so sorry you’re going through this! 

Post # 14
2257 posts
Buzzing bee

I can’t offer any words of wisdom, so I just wanted to say ::HUGS:: So sorry you are going through this! 

Post # 15
857 posts
Busy bee

Hugs! Keep your chin up. Even in the worse situations just remember everythign happens for a reason. THis ended so something better for you can come along. 

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