(Closed) Wrong to be first in the family engaged/married?

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Helper bee

Why would it be rude? You go with your own timeline, not someone else’s.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Live your life! It’s not your job to worry about when/if your brothers are planning to get married. You have to do what’s right for you.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper

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Michelle31096 :  Good news: that’s not how it works so you’re fine.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Uh no. You get engaged when it’s right for you. Your brothers will get engaged when it’s right for them. There’s no right order for family members to get engaged.

Post # 6
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Busy bee

If and/or when your brothers want to get engaged they will. You do you.

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

if you and your boyfriend are ready, you’re ready.  Congratulations!

If your brothers aren’t ready yet–that’s OK.  Everyone has their own path to take.

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