(Closed) WTF?!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 63
Hostess
9630 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

I hope you worked everything out with your man!

Post # 64
Member
774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Dalhousie Castle

MissHarleyBlue:  I think the ring is inconsequential. What does matter is:

– the lying, possible cheating

– excluding you from family events

– not letting you see his children

I say suck it up and piss off your mother now rather than later. Don’t sink to his level and have a fake wedding designed to fool your mother. Enjoy your vegas vacation and make it the start to your new single life free from this crappy guy and his terrible family.

Post # 65
Member
140 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

This can’t be real. In the event that it is though…

OP, I think you need to recognise your worth before you even consider walking down the aisle with any man.

I say any man…because I simply can’t believe one would settle for the type of guy you described in your posts. I say this based on your side of the story. Any man who loves you should be over the moon to “show you off” and have ppl meet you and have you spend time with ppl he cares about, etc. I understand not letting you meet the kids too early in the relationship…but I couldn’t reach the point of being someone’s fiancee having not met his kids.

I wouldn’t even want to be this guy’s girlfriend let alone marry him.

 

Post # 67
Member
3682 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

MissHarleyBlue:  Reread your last post. Tell me why you still want to marry this person.

Post # 68
Member
4036 posts
Honey bee

I can’t believe this train-wreck of a thread is still open? It keeps going round and round in circles, around the track.

Post # 69
Member
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

run away- have an awesome family vacation in vegas with your mom and brother. leave this guy behind. if he doesnt want to tell his family about your relationship there is a GIANT PROBLEM. WOMEN NEED TO BE RESPECTED. he is not respecting you or the relationship. he is making you seem like his secret…

Post # 70
Member
4698 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

MissHarleyBlue:  I was hoping there was an update about you leaving him in this thread.. but apparently not. The problem isn’t people snarking on you, the problem is your inability to stand up for yourself and get out of a toxic and immature relationship.

Also, nothing better to do? I could be wrong but isn’t SC also a message board site.. meaning they’re doing the same thing you are..

 

Post # 71
Member
9595 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

KC-2722:  What is SC????

Also: WTF is the exact correct title for this thread

Post # 72
Member
2510 posts
Sugar bee

MissHarleyBlue:  “I don’t want to be anyone’s  mother but to never be invited to her bday for cake andhaving him take my present to her is stupid.”

All of the other giant red flags aside…you’re marrying a man who has children but you don’t want to be a mother??

Sorry you weren’t invited to a child’s birthday for some cake, a child whom you want nothing to do with…

Post # 73
Member
2510 posts
Sugar bee

MrsBuesleBee:  We’re not allowed to mention that site here (it gets moderated) but it begins with S- and ends with -narky chickens 

Post # 74
Member
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I seriously think you are making this all up.  No woman who doesn’t want to be a mother hooks up with a guy with a kid.  Much less demands that he marry her.  

You want nothing to do with his child and now you’re complaining that he’s hiding her?  And you really want to attend a party for a kid you hon’t like or care about?  Who does that?  It sounds bat shit crazy!!  And, shit … if you treated my kid that way, you’d be lucky that I was just hiding my kid from you instead if dumping your ass!  

And it is no wonder you’re not invited to family things.  You don’t want to get involved with the kid shows utter lack of respect for his family.  No surprise they don’t want you around!!

Do this guy, his kid, and his family a big favor and end it.  you can’t expect his family to accept you and want you around them when you don’t want to be a step mother to his kid!

 

Post # 74
Member
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I seriously think you are making this all up.  No woman who doesn’t want to be a mother hooks up with a guy with a kid.  Much less demands that he marry her.  

You want nothing to do with his child and now you’re complaining that he’s hiding her?  And you really want to attend a party for a kid you hon’t like or care about?  Who does that?  It sounds bat shit crazy!!  And, shit … if you treated my kid that way, you’d be lucky that I was just hiding my kid from you instead if dumping your ass!  

And it is no wonder you’re not invited to family things.  You don’t want to get involved with the kid shows utter lack of respect for his family.  No surprise they don’t want you around!!

Do this guy, his kid, and his family a big favor and end it.  you can’t expect his family to accept you and want you around them when you don’t want to be a step mother to his kid!

 

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