(Closed) WTF?!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 76
Member
964 posts
Busy bee

I don’t know how it’s possible to *not bother to be part of his kid’s life* when you two live together. But okay. His kid apparently doesn’t spend time at the house with him on any sort of a regular basis. Yet another stellar quality to note about this guy.

 

Post # 77
Member
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Sorry to be the one to say, but if these type of unwise choices are typical of OPs behavior, I can understand her mom’s reaction.

 

 ..Or this entire thread was started by a troll

Post # 78
Member
774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Dalhousie Castle

MissHarleyBlue:  Well here’s my question: Having said everything you said, are you going to marry him or not? 

Post # 79
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5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

MissHarleyBlue:  No offense, but I think you both have some pretty major issues and shouldn’t be together. It’ll be pure misery for you both.

As for “I don’t want to be a mother.” First of all, if you marry him, you WILL be stepmother. And sometimes you don’t get the choice because of circumstances. In my previous marriage, my 4 stepchildren came to live with us permanently. It needed to be done so I was right there alongside my husband supporting him and this big change.

Much luck.

Post # 80
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125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2006

don’t really care to read your boohooing because of what I have bolded. You want to marry a guy with kids but don’t want kids to get in the way of your relationship with him. You’ve got issues and this whole “wtf” thread certifies that. 

MissHarleyBlue

 I am pretty sure we are not going to have children. I hate babies. Being pregnant looks horrible. I love my free time and being able to do whatever I want. I love my relationship with Fiance and don’t want kids to get in the way  of it. I always envisioned not being a mother.  I hate everyone telling me I’m selfish. I hate feeling the only reason I would want a kid is to please family. My mother will most likely never be a grandmother. 

 

Well, on to my question.  getting older scares the shit out of me. Fiance is an only child. My brother hated me since the day I was born and lives 5 states down so there will be no family when we’re older. Fiance and I don’t have many friends and those we do already have children or plan to. I am scared of years from now, out living Fiance and being all alone. My grandpa died so for years, my mother and I took care of my grandma until she passed. The thought of being all alone and/or dying alone is scary!

 

wow, how depressing. Lol.”

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