- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
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So last week I posted about my FBIL’s battle with a horrible illness and his last hope of getting better is the removal of his diseased lung. The surgery is tomorrow morning, so needless to say everyone is stressed and scared.
Then today around noon I get a facebook message from my dads wife saying to call her right away, that she found my dad unconscious on the floor. He was supposed to be at work at 6 and they live in a split level – she hadn’t gone downstair all day and figured he was at work. So after am ambulance ride to the hospital they think he had a seizure, which has never happened before. If they decide that is weekday it was, he will not be allowed to drive for at least six months and she doesn’t drive. Oh and they just lost their houseand need to find somewhere to live asap.
I already live with my mom who lost her house andjob and can’t afford to live on her own.
I mean seriously. WTF. I know it sounds selfish but what am I supposed to do about all of this? And how am I supposed to be excited and focus on my new engagement and plan a wedding when everyone around me is suffering??
Sorry for the pity party and this totally not being wedding related, I just needed to get it all out to a bunch of people who won’t judge me.