(Closed) WTF, ugh and grr

posted 11 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think you need to tell your mom nicely that you don’t really appreciate her taking out her frustrations from your sister’s laziness/stupidity/whatever you want to call it on you because you are the one who is actually taking care of business. I know she’s probably stressed dealing with both weddings, but she can’t lump yours in with your sister’s and misdirect her aggravation at you.

Also, your sister needs to get a grip ASAP.

Post # 4
350 posts
Helper bee

I agree totally with Kittyachi.  Also if your sister isn’t interested in planning her own wedding, there isn’t really much you can do except watch her wedding suck!  However, you should probably lay down the law early on and be very clear that you will not get sucked into any last minute stressful crap (having to plan her wedding for her or whatever) simply because she couldn’t get her act together!

Post # 5
5822 posts
Bee Keeper

I would let your sister drop the ball.  If she wants to “go with the flow” she’ll end up with a piece of paper for a wedding, because real weddings take planning!  That shouldn’t be your concern.  Just let her go, and keep chugging away at your own list.  I’m sure your mom is as frustrated as you are by your sister, it’s a shame she’s taking it out on you.

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