- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
My Future Sister-In-Law Moved out today! Yay!!! Yes yay. She lived with us for 8 months and in those 8 months there I had a lot of issues with her crossing a lot of boundries. It wasn’t until the begining of last moth that evrything blew up. So we are still in bad terms, not on my part by the way because I did try to talk things out and see if we can at least find a middle ground. But she just wasn’t trying to.
After our argument she began to look for other places to live. But I guess she eventually decided to move back in with my Future In-Laws. Ok so on thursday I flew out to CA on business, and also a mini vaca. My Fiance stayed home because he had school and work. So after he dropped me off at the airport he decided to go to his moms house and have lunch with his mom and sis. Oh I called him yesterday to see what was up and because I miiiiss him lol. So he told me all of this. So what I got from him is that I think some issues arrose during lunch aboutthe stuff my Future Sister-In-Law was going to leave behind. But he didn’t really tell me exactly what went down because IDK my Fiance is just like that. Anyway, it really bugged me that my Future Sister-In-Law was even thinking she could leave some stuff behind. Ugh!
Ok so next he tells me that his mom told him that his little sister, we’ll call her J (18 yrs old) got into a fight with her bf (she lives with him) and she decided she was moving out. They have been on again off again for the past yr I believe due to her cheating and lieing ways. This little girl has issues, which date back since forever. She would run away from home, sneak out, get into fights at school, everything, you name it. At one point she lived with my other Future Sister-In-Law, because her mom couldn’t control her. But that eventually stopped because she kept doing the same stuff and according to my other Future Sister-In-Law she was to blame for her brake up with her exbf . Anyway back to the original story; so my Fiance told his mom that none of that (reguarding J’s breakup with her bf) really mattered because she was going to return to him in a couple of days anyway.But his mom told him that yeah she probably will but that she didn’t want her to get back with the guy.
Anyway, my Future Mother-In-Law told my Fiance that supposedly J asked her to tell us if she could move in with us. WTF!!! Are they serious!!! After the whole issue with his older sis, she thinks that even bringing up and even asking if it was ok if J moved in with us was okay!?!?! Aside from that I think it’s insulting that she wants us to take her in knowing how J is and knowing that she can’t even control her. Of course my Fiance said no! And thank God he did, because it would have made me soooo angry if he even considered it!
This is just a vent by the way lol!