(Closed) WTH does that mean?! (An ode to a jerk)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

What a jerk comment.  What did your Fiance say exactly…I’m too curious!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@An Alaskan Bride: what an ass (and Im pretty sure we can get away with saying worse things). My Fiance would have handed him his ass if one of his friends had suggested something like that about me.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

stupid stupid stupid. There are women out there closer to another guy than a female friend. Doesn’t mean you are cheating or not a good girlfriend. Maybe after his obnoxious comment, your Fiance will see the light and gradually let this guy fade into the horizon of friendships past.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

What is this guy? 12?

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

this guy is single, right?

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@bebefly: bahahaha – that was my first thought

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

This guy sounds AWFUL, but your fiance sounds great!  🙂 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Wow, this guy sounds like a winner.  I read your other post too.  Ugh.  But I think it’s great that your Fiance is standing up for you.  I’m not saying my Fiance would leave me dangling out there alone in this situation, but I’m not sure he would be as direct as your Fiance in telling his friend (nicely) to piss off and mind his own.  I, too, have had a tense relationship with one of my FI’s friends, and it took awhile before my Fiance finally told him to stop antagonizing me and behave himself.

But anyway, I mainly just wanted to say that it sounds like your Fiance is an absolute gem.  And I’m sorry you have to put up with this gigantic bag of douchery.

 

Post # 13
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Helper bee

Yeah, my FI’s got one of these too. Its so fun. He asked Fiance the other day why I don’t like him and Fiance told him it’s because he’s a dick. Haha, in those words! Annnd he still doesn’t get it….oh and this friend is also FI’s ex’s brother. I don’t see why he is friends with this guy at all, but it’s his friend, not mine. As long as he is standing up for me, there isn’t a whole lot I can do except avoid this guy and delete his drama posts on my FB.

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper

@An Alaskan Bride: Ugh why are men to DUH! sometimes? The things they think and allow to come out of their mouths!

I have an old college friend that I worked with at a local restaurant while at school and have known him for 10+ years (longer than I have known or been with my FI). I met him and another friend at the same restaurant to catch up (my Fiance didn’t feel like joining us but WAS invited) and one of my FI’s co-workers just happened to be there (mind you I had JUST met this co-worker two days before for the first time).

The co-worker came up me and said “aren’t you X’s girl?” and proceeded to imply things he had no business implying as I was with another guy without my Fiance around. After dinner I raced home, stormed in the door and told my Fiance what happened…I was furious. My Fiance addressed the co-worker the next day and the guy said that he assumed I was cheating and was relieved that I had mentioned it, because he thought he was going to have break the bad news. Who the hell does this guy think he is? Apparently even his mother (who was with him at the restaurant) even told him to mind his own business!!!!

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