(Closed) WWYD? Can’t believe I’m in this situation…

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I would prob ask again, and say you need the info for the hotel or something.

 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I agree with mishelleez. And if there’s something going wrong with your mail, you need to know.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

 

I would try to speak to the bride somehow directly…she said you were invited so I would just ask her again if she was able to send out the invite.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’d send another message to her with your “offical RSVP” and explain that you hadn’t gotten the invitation or you’d send the real one. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@KLP2010: I think something like that would be totally appropriate (not to mention considerate)

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think something like that is really appropriate and as MandaMack said, very considerate and kind of you.!

-Good Luck

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@KLP2010: I think thats perfect! Thats so awkward though, Im sorry!!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think it’ll clear her and your mind if you just go straight out and ask her.  I’ve been in similar situations and sometimes it the mail’s fault and others they were just super late mailing the invites!

Post # 12
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Honey bee

Our wedding is also Oct 2 and our RSVP deadline is this weekend, but we could have easily set it a week later. Is there someoe else you can ask about when the rsvp deadline is? I wouldn’t contact her until you’re close to it, personally.

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