(Closed) WWYD? Can’t believe I’m in this situation…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I would prob ask again, and say you need the info for the hotel or something.


Post # 4
2288 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I agree with mishelleez. And if there’s something going wrong with your mail, you need to know.

Post # 5
2054 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011


I would try to speak to the bride somehow directly…she said you were invited so I would just ask her again if she was able to send out the invite.

Post # 6
687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’d send another message to her with your “offical RSVP” and explain that you hadn’t gotten the invitation or you’d send the real one. 

Post # 8
2237 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@KLP2010: I think something like that would be totally appropriate (not to mention considerate)

Post # 9
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think something like that is really appropriate and as MandaMack said, very considerate and kind of you.!

-Good Luck

Post # 10
2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@KLP2010: I think thats perfect! Thats so awkward though, Im sorry!!

Post # 11
1995 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think it’ll clear her and your mind if you just go straight out and ask her.  I’ve been in similar situations and sometimes it the mail’s fault and others they were just super late mailing the invites!

Post # 12
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Our wedding is also Oct 2 and our RSVP deadline is this weekend, but we could have easily set it a week later. Is there someoe else you can ask about when the rsvp deadline is? I wouldn’t contact her until you’re close to it, personally.

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