(Closed) Xboyfriend's current girlfriend(?) advice needed

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

What reason would you have to send it? They’ve already broken up.

 

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I can’t see that what he does or doesn’t do is any of your business. I would back off.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

I wouldn’t be spreading that sort of material to anyone. She already broke up with him; let it be. Not your problem any more!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

Agree, this is no business of yours and you should stay out of it.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

No.  Don’t send it.  You would just be creating more drama.  It’s not your business.

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Almost20Years:  i don’t think it’s any of your business.  just be thankful that he’s your ex.

Post # 9
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Busy bee

@Almost20Years:  I would leave it. Their relationship is over, and sending those links would be of no benefit to anyone.

Post # 10
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Busy bee

Why do you even care? It’s your ex. Move on and leave it alone. It’s not your problem. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

If you had never dated your ex, it might be justified to send those links. But he’s your ex, so any interfering in his business with other women looks like petty bitchery.

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I would stay as far away from my ex as possible. Sending her this link may be perceived as you being involved in their relationship. 

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Almost20Years:  If she was a friend, I’d do it in a heartbeat. But not a stranger. I think getting that stuff from a stranger is weird. I believe “sticking together” (as you put it) with friends. But not just because we’re the same gender. 

If you have a shared friend, you could mention it to her and see what she thinks.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Almost20Years:  The best way to notify people is to click on the “reply” button for each of them. Like I just did for you. Then each name will appear with an “@” sign in your reply.

But in any case, I suspect most people will see the thread has been updated, and take a look, even if you don’t do that.

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