Post # 1
My Maid/Matron of Honor is hosting a shower and gave me a # she could accommodate. We will inivte the bridal party, moms, grandmas, aunts (both sides). But my question is about cousins. One of my aunts has 2 girls 18 and 22 who I like and would want to invite. Another aunt (same side of family) has two girls, 14 and 18 who I’m not close to, then another aunt (again same side) has two girls 10 and 4 who I’m not close to. If I invite all these cousins I have to cut a couple of friends and I’d rather have the friends there.
What would you do? Make it 18 and up so at least I don’t have to invite the three younger girls, but that splits up those two siblings (14, 18).
Or I could make it 21 and up with the sole exception of the bridal party so my 19 yo sister can still come? It’s really just the 22 yo that I’m really close to as far as cousins. My Maid/Matron of Honor also expressed concern about having people under 21 b/c we will have wine and it’s at her house.
Post # 3
- Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry
Not everyone you invite to the shower will be able to attend- if you invite 20, I highly doubt you’ll have 20 show- you’re talking about 5 people?
If the aunts are invited, I doubt there underage daughters would be drinking in front of them.