Post # 1
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Bumble bee
One of my dear friends and I had an intense conversation about anal sex. Her boyfriend wants it, but she doesn’t. She tends to think that his interest lends itself to homosexuality. Let me be clear, she has absolutely nothing against anyone’s sexual preference. I explained to her that FI and I loveeeeee it. Perhaps, I more than he, and he’s as straight as they come! So Bees, do you guys enjoy anal sex with your FI, SO, DH?
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
@SoNLoveWithHim: F no, it terrifies me. My FI wants to but I freak out even at the thought of it.
Exit only, in my opinion!!!!!!!
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
Well, don’t know what you’re missing. I’m just saying! Lol!
Post # 6
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Sugar bee
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
Nope, that’s an exit only, and DH agrees! We are into plenty of adventurous stuff, but that one will never make the cut.
Post # 8
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Helper bee
I’ve done it a few times and I don’t like it. It makes me feel like I have to poop even though there’s nothing there. That’s not an option on your poll. That said, if SO really wanted to do it for a special occasion, I’d do it because he wants to. And I’d pretend to like it. But I wouldn’t like it.
Post # 9
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Sugar bee
You should add a poll option: I have had anal sex and disliked it
Post # 10
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Sugar bee
It’s not a big deal for SO or me. It’s pleasurable but I can take it or leave it. Same for him.
Post # 11
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Honey bee
I didn’t vote: I’ve had anal and it’s ok. Lol, I just can’t seem to get it feeling right, but DH loves it and I keep wanting to try to make it work for me, too.
Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
Ha! That title cracked me up. It’s not my very favorite, but we do it as a treat for the fella once in a while. I defintely don’t think it’s making him gay, lol.
Post # 13
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Busy bee
My FI wants to but I’m on the fence. I want to indulge in his fantasies since I’m the last woman he’ll be having sex with so why not kink it up, plus I’m curious. But his penis is large and it terrifies me, I’m working on a compromise.
Post # 14
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Honey bee
@HisBride515: start small with toys first
Post # 15
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Bumble bee
@Artificial-Sweetener: Great Idea. Doing it now.
Post # 16
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Helper bee
- Wedding: September 2013 - Lake Anna Winery
We’ve done it! I think a lot of it has to do with your trust with your SO, how comfortable you are with him and yourself, and getting over the taboo of it. Mainly the last. I used to be like most of you: I hated the thought of it, thought it was disgusting and people who did it were gross. Well it’s not and we aren’t. DH one day just tried a finger while we were going at it and that changed my mind! Haha
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