(Closed) Yes or No to in the Butt

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Are you against having anal sex

    I've never had anal sex, but willing to try

    I've never had anal sex and never will

    I've had anal sex and loveeeeee it

    I've had anal sex and disliked it

    I want to try it, but I'm scared

    I've had anal sex and it was just ok

  • Post # 95
    3376 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Tried it in a previous relationship, did not enjoy it one bit.  I think DH would like to try it (he jokingly brings it up “casually” a little too often), but I’m not interested in doing it again.  I may rethink it someday if he seriously wants to, but I’m not very open to the idea.

    Post # 95
    143 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    in my experience, it is a much more intense orgasim.  just make sure you are empty first… only do it with someone you trust who will start slow and stay still until your muscles relax and open.. and use lube. 

    Post # 94
    1065 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I used to be a hated it girl, tried it twice with previous relationships and was in sooo much pain.

    With current SO, we tried it once and I hated it and never again.  He is very large and often accidentally hurts me the normal way, so this was even worse.  Then we were on holidays and had had a few drinks (just a little buzzed, not drunk or anything) and we were spooning, and he was rubbing his penis against my bum, and for some reason it felt so good, so I was the one who actually initiated it!  I took it really slowly, and it was such a tease to him, and I could hear in his breathing he was getting crazy excited, and then he started playing in other areas for me, and suddenly I had the most intense feeling I ever had!  It hurt a little afterwards, but nothing unbearable, but I was completely shocked in myself as well.  We still do it from time to time, but it’s a very occassional thing and for some reason sometimes it works and sometimes it’s just a no go.  If anyone is interested in doing it and it hurts the first time,  I suggest don’t give up, maybe try again in a week/month/whatever and take it slooowwwww.  I think you also need a partner who has the self control to let you take it at your pace and not to move a muscle.

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