(Closed) yesterday was my birthday and my BF…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

aw! Sometimes men surprise us! 🙂

Post # 4
87 posts
Worker bee

Amen sister!  I have definitely found that being more relaxed and PRESENT during the waiting period has made a huge difference with SO and I.  I’m sure that my impatience/obsession/anxiety was affecting the way that I interact with him–even if I didn’t mean for it to.  Now, I just focus on maximizing every second of the time that we spend together.  And the results have been positive.  We went ring shopping on Sunday, discussed budget and practiced our “first dance” on Wednesday night spontaneously in the living room.  I think when you let go of the “waiting anxiety” you can remember to be the fun, independent and cool woman that he fell in love with.  THAT is what makes him want to marry you more than all of the interrogation and suspicion. 

Happy waiting, my friend….:-)

Post # 5
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Thats a really sweet present – though I find it a big tease if my SO ever bought my jewellery that wasn’t an engagement ring..

Why as independent, modern women do we want this ring so badly?!

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