(Closed) You are not my child’s Auntie – VENT

posted 6 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Don’t let her anywhere near your kid!

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Miss Smurf:  It can be tough how nuts people can get when you get pregnant. I don’t have any ex-friends getting involved, but I do have people who do not have children giving me unsolicited advice, that is the opposite of how I would parent any day.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Not to bring this up…if you don’t like this person why are you friends on Facebook?

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Have you ever told her any of these things?

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Wow…just ignore her. Have you spoken to your family about this?

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

gag…this would annoy me so much. Sorry…nothing constructive to add. I would just be seriously grossed out by her behavior. “Being an Auntie means you get privilleges that even the parents don’t get” Seriously?! Pretty sure that “Auntie” won’t be getting any privileges. Unless it’s considered a privilege to stay far far away from the kid. blah

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@Miss Smurf:   oh my goodness, i am going through the same thing with a “family member.” i am trying to decide if i am gonna just let it go and let her call herself auntie, or if i am gonna toughen up and speak up and go into bitch mode.

Post # 13
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688 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Miss Smurf:  yes, I have an associate I can’t get rid of. She is a user and all I wan to do is get rid of  her. I tell her I might stop by her house and never do and she blows up my cell phone. This so called friend offered me how house to have my wedding but I know she did it because I would owe her for a longggggggggg time. I have so many stories about her that there is not enough time in the world to write it all down. I hope she will get the clue and your ex friend too.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m so thrilled to be a legitimate new aunt (sister’s baby), but I would never deign to say that I have rights that my sister and BIL don’t have, and certainly would never give unsolicited parenting advice or question/criticize choices they have made.

She sounds toxic, but it sounds like you have some complicated issues with families and mutual friends and all. No real advice, just good luck! 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

Hahaha wow the most troubling thing I read in this letter to your “friend” is how she was bashing your wedding in the bathroom and you heard every word!!! AH!!!! Does she know that you know this?!? I swear I would probably never speak to said person again and I would not even tell her why. She can figure it out lmao. Wow, just wow. This is no friend, I can tell you that much.

Congrats on your pregnancy by the way!! 🙂 yay!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Her family was making comments to your family? Um, Jerry Springer much? Who does that-it’s so ….just…trashy or something.

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