(Closed) You Cannot Be a BEE!! :(

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Hah – I totally am there! Instead of Fiance, it’s actually me holding me back. I think that I would love to be a bee – the creative juices are flowing and I want to share! However, I just don’t think that I can get myself to post pictures of myself and Fiance for the world to see – I even write a food blog, but I never even use names or even post pictures of our faces, just food.

 

Post # 4
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2742 posts
Sugar bee

Tee hee! I didn’t even bother asking. My guy doesn’t even have facebook, that’s how anti-pics on the net he is. No wedding website, nada. I don’t know why he’s like that but he is what he is. It would have been nice to see you blog your wedding though.

Post # 5
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

No my Darling Husband is the opposite. He actually said “So this is kind of like an online journal” and he was really supportive of the fact that i had somewhere to go to to just “bee” without harassing all my friends and family all the time 🙂

Post # 6
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1556 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I suspect my husband might freak if he knew how much I put in my posts…there is NO WAY he’d be ok with me being a Bee.

Post # 7
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4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

haha i agree with your fi…i do not want my picture all over a website when i can’t control the privacy!

Post # 8
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241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Can you publish your own blog or is your Fiance against all blogging?

Post # 9
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948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My Fiance thinks its weird how much we talk about weddings and how much information everyone shares.  Every time I bring up a wedding idea, which he calls the “good idea fairy”, he always asks if I read it on the bee.  Never mentioned to him about being a Bee, but I’m not sure he’d want me too. 

Post # 10
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5823 posts
Bee Keeper

Darling Husband told me (kind of) the same thing back in the day.  No wedding blogging for me, he didn’t want pictures of himself on the internet.

Post # 11
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2410 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’ve had a random blog for 6 years now, so I don’tthink he would care one way or the other as he is used to it. I di think that blogging about the entire wedding might be a bit much for us though.

Post # 12
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241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Aww, that’s too bad.  I would have loved to read about the traiditional elements you talked about.  I’m sure many people here would have!

Post # 13
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14 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

my fiance is very very supportive of it. that way i dont bother him all the time with stuff lol. sometimes he even gives me ideas i should blog about

Post # 14
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I agree with your Fiance. It blows my mind how much personal info Bees post here — location, first names, full-face pictures (of themselves and others, i.e. guests, bridal party members, who might not have even given consent to have their photos posted), even, i.e. in the case of Scissors’ invitation, their parents’ full address!!! Yikes. I find that even a lot of Hive members do some crazy over-sharing. I don’t know if it’s worth it to risk your safety (and especially the safety of your unsuspecting friends/family) in that manner.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My fiance would probably be okay with it if it was something I really wanted to do, but I can’t imagine being able to post many recaps because I doubt my friends and especially my family would appreciate their photos on a public site seen by so many. 

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