Post # 1
You know, I didn’t think you would call but a little tiny piece of me was hoping. Hoping for my husband who was waiting for his mother to call him on his birthday. You’re a selfish, effin’ bitch and I’m livid right now for him even though he is too good to ever tell you the same to your face!!!
If you have a problem with me, call me to yell, curse, whatever! But DO NOT HURT MY HUSBAND!!
Post # 3
@Just_Squeeze: Oh No!!!! I’m sooo sorry this is happening to you! <calming, comforting Hugs> going your way
Post # 5
*hugs* it sucks when the person you love is hurting but you are there for him and hopefully that means the world to him
some moms suck – i should scan my last birthday card from my mom, not a shining mom moment either
Post # 6
Mean, self-absorbed, hurtful people suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Post # 7
I think I’ve read some of your posts before, regarding your husband’s evil mother. I am not fully abreast of the entire situation, but I think he really needs to stop hanging on to the hope that she’s going to change and be different. All that is going to happen is he’s going to keep getting hurt and emotionally abused. I feel so bad for you AND him.
Post # 8
I have a malicious Mother-In-Law, too.
As much as it hurts right now, maybe it’s GOOD she didn’t call so you guys can just break ties with her and not deal with her drama in the future.
I agree with you that it would be much easier if they would just confront us if we are the ones they are having problems with rather than take it out on our husbands.
So sorry this is happening to y’all. 🙁
Post # 10
I’m sorry. We are currently not speaking with Future Mother-In-Law. She has decided to not be a part of our lives after Fiance gave her an ultimatim regarding treating him like a person. I am sorry she hurt your hubby tho 🙁
Post # 11
I’m sorry for your Darling Husband, but he’s damn well lucky to have you in his life. Its great that you care so so much for him and this is just an opprotunity to shower him with love, even though his mom didn’t.
Post # 12
Future Mother-In-Law … ugh … you cant pick your family! So sorry! I know what its like!
Post # 13
Thank you so much everyone. I was regretting writing from the heart and in the heat of the moment but I see that the Bees understand. Hugs back to everyone with evil (F)MILs!!!
And yes, her non-action yesterday just solidifies the fact that she does not deserve to be in our lives.
Post # 14
If anything these actions should help ease your husbands angst in having to shut her down
She doesn’t deserve your attention or energy.
I’m sorry you and he are going through this. She sounds like a complete asshole of a person.
Post # 15
@Oneeleven: I do feel it’s completely over now. I mean, I was holding out hope that things could get fixed before the holidays came around. But now? Next month is not only our first year anniversary, but my bday. I’m sure there will be no greeting cards in the mail from her. Soon it will be December. Do you honestly think I want to spend Christmas with her?
She just succeeded in pushing us so far away from her now, she will probably wait months and months and months before she sees her son again.
I asked Darling Husband if this has ever happened (although I knew the answer), if she ever DIDN’T call for his bday and obviously, the answer was no. I cried, said it was all my fault and he said that no way is it my fault and it’s just him and I now.
I made him bday cupcakes and stuck candles in them. He started singing “happy bday to me”. It made me laugh and cry at the same time. That I was the only one around to sing to him so he joined in. (Although ALL of my family called him and on saturday, my sister bought him a cake).
I hated her before. Now, she simply DOES NOT EXIST to me. AT ALL!
Post # 16
What a wretched whore.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR. JUST_SQUEEZE!!!!!!!!!!!