(Closed) You know how I know it’s Monday? Because it was kind of crappy.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I say plan the wedding, set a date, don’t change it even if your FH is still in school. I became pregnant and was due one month before the wedding date we had set and I canceled it. Baby came early and I would of had 3 months until our wedding and I wish I would have just kept the date instead of waiting three years later! Now were ready for a second child but put that off untill our wedding is over. As for that ex who got away. Keep him away. I think its odd he is contacting your family. Hopefully they tell him your doing absolutely wonderful and getting ready for your big day!! Maybe Mom is confused by this ex contacting the family and shes worried you and your FH won’t work out. Talk to her! And if she knows your super excited about dress shopping this week she should really want to go too!

Post # 4
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m sorry everything is so crummy for you right now. I agree with setting a date and keeping it despite what hapens with your Fiance. If it’s one semester back due to one class it won’t be so bad.

As far as your ex, hmm he had time to ask about you or contact you before but didn’t and now that your’e engaged he’s contacting your family? He’s just still being an a**hole by not letting you move on. He’s trying to ruin your happiness consciously or subconsciously by playing with your emotions. Obviously he knows that if he contacts your family they’ll tell you. Let him go, remember why you’re engaged to your fiance and not the ex.

I hope the sick puppy’s infection clears up, take him to a vet.

David’s Bridal IS open on Sunday. Make an appointment. Don’t put pressure on yourself or on your mom, just go try dresses on. If you just sort of like them, well then at least you tried on dresses. But if you find THE dress your mom will likely see the excitement in you. Who knows, perhaps the sale prices and your excitement will motivate her to buy the dress. But again, don’t put pressure on the situation. She’s right, it is still pretty early.

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

So, are you still feeling confident about marrying your fiance or are you wondering, “what if” with the ex? You really should straighten your feelings out ASAP. Seems like you’re still wondering about what could have happened.

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