You know no one is forcing you to stay in this relationship.

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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6806 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

kied767 :  “he said , face it, most women are selfish”

Honestly, I couldn’t even be in a relationship (let alone a marriage!) with someone that spoke/thought about women this way. 

Post # 32
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3408 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

He’s sexist.

He’s misogynistic.

He doesn’t want to marry you.

He doesn’t respect you or your wishes.

He’s unwilling to compromise. 

Do you seriously want to be with someone who can be described that way? Think about that.

Post # 33
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1316 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

my first cousin is in this EXACT situation and basically she has succumbed to just “weʻll just never get married”. I donʻt know how hurt she is aobut the idea that it just will never happen since theyʻve broken up multiple times over it and always “work it out to see what happens” but I know I couldnʻt. Itʻs his house, his life, you just hapenn to keep his bed warm at night. And I, for one, think you deserve a whole lot more than that.

Post # 34
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1147 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Fremont, CA

What I find most disturbing is how easy it is for him to just show you the door. Isn’t he supposed to do all the things you do for him: love you, want to talk things through, compromise, do all in his power to keep you (not because he has to, but because he WANTS to)?

Post # 35
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6100 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

Your guy sounds like a sexist asshole. You should get out before you waste any more of your precious time with him.

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