(Closed) You may not have noticed but I was MIA…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry that you were sick but it sounds like you had a good man-servant to take care of you!  I hope that planning your wedding goes well, even though your guy can’t find a job.  It’s really tough out there right now.

Post # 5
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I hope that he finds something.  I have been out of work since we moved last July (though only seriously looking the past few months) but there aren’t a lot of opportunities for me out there.

Post # 7
Member
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Sorry to hear thatyou were sick! I’m glad your man servant was there for you! It makes you feel very appreciative!

When i was laid of last october my SO made it a point every day to make me feel like i was worth something and that there were so many things out there. Every day fro two weeks as he would leave to work, I would stand by the door and start crying. He did so much and was my rock that to this day, I think those moments were the ones that push me to become a better person and strive for success.

Here Here to wonderful men!

Post # 9
Member
173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

with my past luck i feel very blessed.he has superceded my ecpectations.hope u feel better.

Post # 10
Member
101 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m sorry to hear you were so sick, and I hope you’re on the other side of it!  I don’t have the ring yet either, but I actually had a moment just like what you were talking about this past weekend.  I work two jobs (my full-time and then a part-time), and this was one of the biggest weekends for me in regards to my part-time job of being a second-shooter for a photographer/member of her events team.  We had TWO HUGE SHOWS in one weekend – a women’s show on Saturday and a bridal expo on Sunday.  So, this means that I worked 8-hour days all 7 days last week.  Mr. CW and I are currently in a LDR and he stayed later than he wanted to on Sunday just to make sure he’d tidied up the house/made me a hot fresh dinner/and I even got a foot and calf massage!  Ring or no ring – I love this man!

Post # 12
Member
101 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@KansasPrincess11:  Ha!  Yes, I would count that as a MAJOR win!  Yes, they are exhausting, and you’re right – the fashion show is ALWAYS the hardest part (along with setup, in my opinion – when you have to help all the vendors construct their spaces, it takes a lot out of a girl!).  I feel like you and I are totally on the same wavelength – during a “Wine and Whine” with my ladies this past week, we ranted about the bad things (one of them has been on-again/off-again with her man, and it’s giving the rest of the girls whiplash!).  They asked me how I was doing and I just said that sometimes I freak out and want the ring/want to be married now and others I’m really mellow, and I think to myself that I’ve been able to keep a good man for almost 6 years – and I am proud of that!  And I agree with you, I’ve never said it either but I sometimes think that my relationship is much healthier than the ones that have sonewhat judged me for not being engaged yet!  You go, girl!

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