(Closed) you really changed your wedding day to mine..rant?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I can understand somewhat. FH and I have been keeping all of our wedding details under wraps, including the date, because we both know someone who is also engaged and who is the type of person to take out date, our venue, everything. It woudldn’t be a big deal for me if we didn’t have common friends and therefore common wedding guests, but we do, and I don’t want people to feel like they have to choose or start a lot of drama because x friend is going to x wedding… 

Post # 4
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Helper bee

This is incredibly frustrating! I don’t have much to offer in the way of advice, aside from saying that I am sorry that this is happening.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@FutureMrsBess:  Such a sucky situation! It is completely wrong for them to pick the same date. Have you talked to them about it? If they aren’t willing to budge, are you and your Fiance willing to postpone yours just so you guys can have the bridal party you really want?

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

GAH! I would be sooo pissed off!

Edit=Have you talked to her about her changing her date and stealing 2 people? 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@FutureMrsBess:  I understand, but you can’t stress over it too much. You don’t expect people to take your wedding date, especially people that knew you had picked it. 

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

That is AWFUL! Poor you!

Post # 14
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Busy bee

@FutureMrsBess:  Oh by the way, if you can, NYE wedding is pretty awesome. I was a bridesmaid in it, and OMG, it was a blast.

 

And guess what? People will always remember your wedding. They will say, hey, remember such and such got married on NYE?

Post # 16
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

That stinks and it is very odd that you both want Jan 4. Do you live in the Southern Hemisphere  where it is warm in January?

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