(Closed) Younger Brother engaged first, Older Brother getting married first

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3885 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

No, you’re not missing anything— your brother’s fiance is being a pouty baby.

Unfortunately if you spend long enough on the ‘bee you will see a lot of threads on this very subject— both sides of it— and I guess the only explanation is that weddings bring out the very worst in some people. 

Post # 4
6222 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I think you’re taking it pretty well, and it’s good that you’re not letting it ruin your plans. Some people are just like that, regardless of age. It’s dumb, but you can’t do anything about it. Just accept that she is immature and isn’t concentrating on what the marriage should be (that it’s not about being “first”)

Post # 5
3755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Sounds like she’s immature and hormonal!! You have nothing to feel bad about!! My brother proposed to his Girlfriend a month after my Fiance proposed to me. His Girlfriend is pregnant and they want to get married before the baby comes so it’s going to happen soon. Fiance and I had already booked our wedding for 2014. Some people (my mom) were worried I’d get mad because he was stealing my thunder, but nope, my day is a year away, all of his limelight will be long over and done with by then! And how could I be angry that my brother is getting married and having a baby?! I can’t wait to meet my new niece or nephew!!


I hope she settles down!!!

Post # 6
734 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Yeah, I think she’s being a little bit silly. Try not to let it bother you and just plan your wedding!! Your reasons for getting married before October make complete sense.

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