(Closed) Your advice!? My drama-filled bridesmaid situation

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
5662 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

You really need to ask who you know will support you throughout this wether they get along or not and wether you have old history or not. I’d go with friend 1 and let go of friend 2. Weddings completely test people, friendships and relationships, and this is your time to enjoy this experience. My advice is always to never do things for your own wedding out of obligation.choose the people in your life that you know love and support you without conditions!!

Post # 4
Member
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@toasty:  no way to friend #2, ask friend #1 

Which one of these ladies will you still get together with in 10 years and still have that feeling like “nothing’s changed”.  i say friend 1  screw friend 2!

Post # 5
Member
692 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I would ask them, but also add to that question what you wrote here. How you know you’re distant but love them to pieces, how you don’t want to upset one for asking the other, etc. Just be open and honest. Give them a chance to decide.

The topic ‘Your advice!? My drama-filled bridesmaid situation’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors