(Closed) “Your getting married?….To him?!?!”

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Omg, who says that?  Even if you think it, why would you say that out loud?  I wouldn’t even say that to someone I dislike.  What a jerk.  I imagine the reason for it, aside from having no filter, is that she’s at least a lil jealous.  She’s trying to take the wind out of your sail, don’t let her. 

Post # 4
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860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Screw these people.

You should say “yeah, I’m thinking about breaking off the engagement b/c he is ugly” just to see the look on her face.

Post # 5
Bee
2362 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

OMG that is horrible.  There really are no excuses for her behavior.  ignore her, she’s not worth your time!

Post # 6
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5671 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

OMG! How have people gotten so far as to work in the corporate world and have no etiquette, especially and HR person!

Post # 7
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446 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That’s totally unbelievable, and yes, particularly from someone in HR! I guess you can take that as a semi compliment to YOU but seriously, how rude. 

I love that you called your FI adorable and really, that’s all that matters.  Also, if other people know how wonderful he is to you and how happy he makes you all the other stuff really doesnt matter.

That lady seriously needs a lesson from Miss Manners.

Congratulations!

Post # 8
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2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

oh my goodness, what a jerkface.

Post # 10
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383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

That is truly hateful.  What did she think these comments were accomplishing?  If I was you I’d calm myself by relishing in the fact that she is clearly a spiteful asshole, and you are marrying the man you love.

Post # 11
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1032 posts
Bumble bee

Oh my goodness, what a butt-head! I would nicely ask to see a pic of her husband/BF, and when she tells you she doesn’t have one (which I am sure she doesn’t with tact like that) I would simply say “Oh”… and then go back to work.

I apologize in advance for the snarkiness… :p

Post # 12
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7771 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

People are so rude!  She sounds like a diarrhea mouthed ridiculous person.  What does she know?

Post # 13
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5894 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

and from an HR person, no less!!! report her.

Post # 15
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4547 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

What is wrong with people? Unaaceptable!

Post # 16
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2829 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

That is way out of line. I would be so livid!

Maybe she was trying to give you a compliment and just failed HORRIBLY doing it (verbal diarehea much) i.e.: since she said you looked 16 (fail), maybe she was trying to imply that she wanted your children to age well as you have??? 

Still way way beyond rude, to both you and your FH. Effing unbelievable she is HR.

I really do not understand where people get off commenting on peoples agelookslife choices. It is 2010, leave your biases, prejudices and superficial attitudes in the last century, where they belong plzkthnx.

 

 

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