(Closed) Your Ideal Proposal

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 46
2414 posts
Buzzing bee

“Will you marry me?”   “Yes!”

Post # 47
1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

I proposed to my fiance with what would’ve been my dream proposal. I saw that 365 prosposal video on youtube and sort of stole that idea except that instead of asking him to marry me every day for a year I told him one thing I loved about him every day for a year and then proposed at the end of the video. I would’ve loved that for myself but out of the two of us I’m the more creative one so there was no way he would’ve thought to do that.

Post # 48
88 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

I would love a proposal with our close friends and family or something private with just us two!

Post # 49
133 posts
Blushing bee

As long as he’s not wasted to the point here can barely sit up, let alone on one knee, I’ll be happy. Or, outside of the grocery store. Seriously the first situation should have been my big red flag with the ex. Lol. 

Ideally, private. But the bf has already promised it will be something big. If that’s the case i hope my friends and family are there since they all know about it already. 

Post # 50
34 posts

either privately or with a very small group of our closest friends so that someone could capture the moment with a photo. perhaps while out on a date so im a bit more dressed up than i usually am on a day to day. as far as specifics go, im not really sure i can imagine it. as long as its him.

Post # 51
92 posts
Worker bee

Honestly, at this point…after 7.5 years…I don’t really care. lol I’ve never had an ‘ideal proposal’ and I thank God everyday I’m not the one who has to do it because I’m lousy at coming up with creative ideas like that. I’d be happy with something simple: A walk in the park, dinner, sitting in our PJs, whatever. He said he might want our parents to be there to see it, and he wants a picture to capture the moment, so I think he wants to do something more elaborate. I told him I’d prefer something low key, private, and simple, but again, I just want it to happen. lol. I’ll be happy either way!

Post # 52
31 posts

Something without all of our friends and family around- just him saying something heartfelt and romantic, and with time to continue to celebrate the engagement together that day. I’d be too excited to sleep right away! Not necessarily in our apartment, but just because our three cats tend to ruin the moment… 

Post # 53
1391 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2020

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marypoppins :  7.5 years, that is a lot! And I complain about nearly four…

I’d like something pretty simple. A proposal, haha. I don’t care if it’s just us or a whole crowd of people, what he says, or most any of that. I want it to just happen sooner rather than later because I’m impatient! Haha.

If I were to give preference, I think it would be nice to have it happen outdoors, somewhere in nature. Anywhere besides our house, basically. I would rather look a little nicer than workout clothes, but in the end I probably won’t care. One thing I really want is either some photos/video of the proposal. Outside of that, nothing really. I’m a pretty simple person to please lol.

Post # 54
266 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2020

(sigh) we lived together for 4 years (5 1/2 relationship) and the ring is picked out.. I dont think he has brought it yet..

Honestly the magic of it is gone.. Too much taking about it, too much of me picking the ring,too much of us living as a married couple already, and thus; I just wish he would do it already and get it over with. 

Simple get the ring, get on your knee, ask.. ill oblivious say yes and then we can get ice cream and then go home…go to sleep.. get up go to work….

VERY SIMPLE!….yet im still waiting. (shrug)

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