(Closed) Your kidding me right??? MOH has dramatic melt down….

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yikes…sorry to hear about the dramaz. I hope you and your Maid/Matron of Honor are able to figure out something that will work for both of you.

Post # 4
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh pregnancy hormones.

Post # 5
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I say just talk to her about it! She’s your best friend….she will understand! Just approach it from a “hey, I was just thinking” side, and not get all mad/defensive upfront, and I think it will be okay. My best friend and I have had fights, but we always resolve it.

Post # 6
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1365 posts
Bumble bee

Why do you not get to have your showers because you can’t attend hers?

Post # 7
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1109 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

People have multiple showers all the time. Just have a little lunch for her on the date you planned. You can’t control this shower her family is hosting and you can’t keep it from happening, so the best you can do is just have your own. Especially because there will be some friends or family members who can’t make it to her first shower.

As for her flipping out on you, chalk it up to hormones.

You’re being a good friend and trying to be involved and showing her you’re happy for her, which she appreciates I’m sure. You’re just not in a good place to host a shower right now and that’s ok. Hope you two can patch things up quickly, it sounds like you’re both coming from a good and honest place…

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sorry hun!

I didn’t get a bridal shower and I’m probably going to plan my own bachelorette party and I’m not incredibly happy about it. Why aren’t people more thoughtful?

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