- Miss Mitzie
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
OK I have to start this post by saying my Maid/Matron of Honor is my very best friend in the world (not including my fiance) and I’m not going to kick her out of the wedding, or not talk to her, I just need to vent. I’ll try to keep it semi-short. Maid/Matron of Honor we will call her T found out a couple months ago that she is preg and due at the end of January. I was really excited for her, told her to get me a list of numbers for her friends and I would do her baby shower. When I told her this my original plan had been to do it the first week of January, because I think 3-4 weeks out is a good time to do it, and honestly the next 3 months for me is swamped. Fiance and I own/build/run a haunted hayride and forest for Halloween and we are open every weekend in Oct, and we started building like a month ago… FIs birthday comes, we still have a couple small things to do to wrap up the wedding stuff, bachelor/bachelorette partys, Thanksgiving, my birthday and then my wedding and honey moon, my sons birthday, Christmas and New Years…. Needless to say I’m really overwhelmed….
T called me a couple nights ago flipping out on me about her baby shower. She hasn’t mentioned my bridal shower (her job to plan) or my bachelorette party (again her job). She told me that she knew I was really busy and that she was going to have her other friend host it and it has to be at her Nana’s house… Well first off I really want to host it, second T has an estranged cousin who physically attacked me 2 years ago when I fired her from my haunt because she wasn’t working and I have seen her a couple times since then with no problem, but I’m not even aloud at her Nanas house…. And T wants to have it really soon….
So not only do I not get to plan my bff’s baby shower, I won’t get to attend it, and she is worried about that so I am not going to get a shower or bach party… I’m not trying to be petty I’m just sad and upset