Your sex life

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
9615 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

I think we fall somewhere in the middle. We are both pretty open to any suggestions and like to try new things to keep things interesting. 

Post # 5
816 posts
Busy bee

I’d prefer more kinky stuff but my fiancé is VERY vanilla and wouldn’t know where to start. So absolutely standard vanilla sex is it 😂

Post # 6
2577 posts
Sugar bee

SO and I are definitely on the kinkier side and we love trying new things.  

Post # 7
1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

My fiance is pretty dominant and I’m pretty submissive, so I feel like our intimancy is kinky in that nature, but we don’t use extra gear like vibrating panties or rope or leather whips or anything. It’s just the two of us and that makes it hot enough for the both of us 😉

Post # 8
3541 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 29th, 2016

runnergrl445 :  I think we’re French vanilla with hot fudge and a cherry on top. Vanilla sounds boring, which isn’t a word I’d use to describe us, but we’re not wild and crazy either. What we do works for us 🙂 

Post # 9
3409 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

You should do it! That sounds fun. I think I will recommend that to my husband, which I believe answers your question about where I stand.

Post # 11
1073 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

We’re very vanilla to be honest. Sometimes we’ll try new positions, but we keep coming back to the same one because it just works for us. I’d be open to trying new things if that’s what my SO wanted, but we’re both very satisfied with our sex life as is. I wouldn’t call our sex life BORING though, we always have fun when we have sex, and it’s special and intimate, but yes it is very vanilla in the sense that we have one main position we use and don’t do anything kinky.

Post # 12
169 posts
Blushing bee

My partner is into vanilla sex. I would prefer to add a few kinkier things (nothing too out there).  So it’s quite vanilla cause I don’t feel like it is fair to pressure my partner in to something he doesn’t feel comfortable with.

Post # 13
995 posts
Busy bee

Vanilla. Mostly because I have low if no drive with BC. But before… things were not so “simple and plain”. Lol. 

I just don’t value it as much in my relationhip now as I did before… I know it needs to be there but it isn’t as important now as a good connection and time together.

Post # 15
1124 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

I’d say we fall on the middle of the spectrum. Neither of us have any specific “kinks,” but we do have sex toys, crotchless panties, etc. We try to switch up the places we do it, also. My one hard boundary is no threesomes/swinging.

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