Your sex life

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2021 - Kauai, HI

We like to change up the venue, role play some.  Lingerie pretty often and toys now and then.   He kind of surprises me in all he’s up for.  It’s the quiet ones ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 17
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85 posts
Worker bee

Beth7210 :  sounds like my life ๐Ÿ˜ฉ although when I initiate kinky, I get kinky. 

Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

I wouldn’t really consider us to be “vanilla” but I dont think we’re kinky either. We have a “finishing move” that we use more often than not lol but we keep things spicy. Fi is very dominant in bed and it was one of the things that drew me into him. 

Post # 19
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1160 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2019 - Tacoma, WA

Yeah, SO and I definitely fall way on the kinky side of things. laughing

Post # 20
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2557 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - County courthouse

My husband and I are pretty kinky. Gotta keep our sex life alive after 12 yrs of sex

Post # 21
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162 posts
Blushing bee

runnergrl445 :  well what I want is kinky only if we count missionary as vanilla and anything beyond that as kinky. So that’s a disclaimer that my desired are not necessarily that kinky. I would like to have sex outdoors (this we tried but he felt there were too many bugs ๐Ÿ˜‚), watch porn together, light bondage, new positions, coming somewhere else on the body, I read about a few different oral positions and foreplay ideas. more of a “take me now” mentality than “does tomorrow at 8 work for you”. I guess I’m not looking for kinkyness as much as variety.

Post # 22
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1974 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Pearson Convention Centre

I describe our sex life as very pleasurable and sensual not crazy not boring

Post # 23
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

It’s pretty vanilla… but very frequent and satisfying, so we both think it’s perfect ๐Ÿ˜Š We do have a couple toys and like sexting and some stuff like that. 

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2020

I would consider us pretty vanilla. We experiment here and there, but usually go right back to what we were doing before. *Shrug* I like it how it is. 3-4 go to positions, no toys.

Post # 26
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

We’re a little kinky but nothing over the top! But I’m always open to trying new things. New toys can always be fun! 

Although lately D.H has been suggesting that we try …ahem … putting it in the backdoor, and I feel like I’m pretty vanilla here because my answer was NO WAY! I told him the only way I’d be open to that is if we put a dildo in his bum first! LOL!

Post # 27
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Busy bee

runnergrl445 :  he does but I’m not going to force something he’s uncomfortable with on him. I’m his one and only sexual partner. I’m sure in a few more years or so I’ll get him a bit more out there sexually ๐Ÿ˜‚ 

Post # 28
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156 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

Biting, talking/demanding toys ,choking and all pretty normal/regular for us. 

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