(Closed) Your sister is doing what?!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

no you are not being silly,  you dont just invite random friends to a party that you have been invited to as a guest, even if (or especially if) its a family members wedding – thats rude

 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@eloping: Exactly. Some people just don’t give a damn about anything beyond the tips of their own noses. Your Fiance needs to tell her she can’t have them since he was the one she told.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Psh. No. FI’s sister needs to be told to cool it with spending you guys’ money. I’d have Fiance tell her that no, she can’t bring an extra COUPLE, and she is in charge of informing them that it was her faux pas.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AmeliaBedelia: Ditto. Fiance needs to let his sister know that this is a no-go, and she’s responsible for telling the friends. Sheesh, who does that!?

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

That’s ridiculous. you don’t just invite friends to someone elses wedding! Just call her up and politely tell her that you are having a small wedding and don’t want people you don’t know at your wedding.

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

oy — totally inappropriate.  maybe she is young and doesn’t understand the  misstep she is making?  (in her mind, it’s an awesome party, and she wants to bring friends?) — still, definitely not ok and should be told so. 

 

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I am shocked at your sister in law! You are absolutely right, and should say something to her about it. This is your wedding not a weekend hangout!! “Some couple?” What is this a double date? unbelievable!

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yikes, that is completely ridiculous!  I’m not sure how anyone would think that was okay to just invite a couple random people to a wedding.  I would definitely have your Fiance tell her to squash that ASAP.  You already told her she could have a +1, that’s sufficient.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I agree with PPs, you’re not being silly or crazy, and your Fiance should talk to his sister. That’s ridiculous. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m with the other ladies.  Your Fiance needs to be the one to tell her that no she doesn’t have invite rights and if she wants them, then she needs to get engaged and start planning her own wedding!  I can’t believe she thinks that’s ok!!

Post # 13
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642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

That is not ok and something my sister would do!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Leesh: lol how considerate of her to take your guest list into her hands! 

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i would hope the couple she invited would have the common sense not to take her seriously…

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