(Closed) Your thoughts?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
3305 posts
Sugar bee

She asked you to be a reader because she felt bad that se couldn’t/didn’t ask you to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man. She has her reasons, so if you are happy with doing the reading, accept and leave it alone.

Post # 5
3305 posts
Sugar bee

She probably emailed you to avoid the awkwardness or possible confrontation from your side.

Post # 6
11747 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s up to you. If you want to do the reading and attend go for it, if not let her know otherwise.

Post # 7
519 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think she asked you to be a reader because she wants you to be a part of her wedding. She’s giving you a way to still be part of her big day because she cares about the friendship that you guys have shared. 

Post # 8
2359 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

i think too she may have wanted to include you somehow.  Picking bridesmaids is not an easy decision.  Also, my best friend has another best friend and theyvè been friends way longer then her and i, the other best friend recently got married and although my best friend wasn`t in the wedding party, she asked her to say a reading, and she was still super happy to do that for her.  They are still best friends, but distance keeps them from seeing each other alot. 

i wouldn`t sweat it. 

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